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Punitive home learning policy from year 1 upwards

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Pachamama2017 · 15/11/2019 21:41

Hi there,
My daughter loved school until she started year 2 this year. They had a newly appointed teacher who also has a senior leadership role. Since September she has been crying a lot both at bedtime and just before going in because she 'doesn't want to go' and she 'doesn't like learning' (in spite of the fact that she spent most of the summer asking when she could start learning in y2). I got the impression that there had been a significant increase in pressure in terms of workload and difficulty, my daughter was given homework for the half-term break and came back on the first day of term to a spelling test. I have also since discovered that any children (y1 upwards) will be held in at breaktime if they don't complete homework. I met with the teacher to discuss my daughters feelings twds school and to highlight how such approaches potentially contribute. She completes her hmwk quickly and she hasn't been 'punished' but I don't like that they are essentially threatening 5+ years old. Surely such a punitive approach is counterproductive to creating a low-anxiety environment in which children can thrive? My concerns fell flat as the teacher staunchly defended the policies but her justifications were target based 'meeting literacy and numeracy expectations' etc and it seems that the well-being of young children had not figured in the formation of these policies.
So, has anyone else experienced similar policies in KS1/lower KS2?
How did you deal with it?
Any other thoughts?
Thanks in advance!

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NeurotrashWarrior · 18/11/2019 20:42

If I'm honest, a chat might be in order as they may want to know about her distress. Perhaps find out how many other parents agree. I can't see it working well For any children with additional needs.

SquashedFlyBiscuit · 18/11/2019 20:46

Neurotrash for education secretary!

Pachamama2017 · 18/11/2019 21:23

"Neurotrash for education secretary!"
Hear, hear!

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BubblesBuddy · 18/11/2019 22:57

The schools behaviour and sanctions policy should mention that they have detentions for not completing homework.

There is no longer any requirement for a home/school agreement that used to cover such issues however your school has a homework policy which doesn’t tie in with the sanctions policy. I would definitely query that. I would not agree that not doing homework should attract a punishment. I doubt there is any evidence this is a suitable policy.

I do agree that schools should make every effort to help deprived DC. This does mean stepping in when parents struggle and I applaud schools that do this. I was a governor of one with all the characteristics described above plus a few parents in prison and plenty of SS involvement. Of course these DC should receive help and often lovely playtime at home isn’t possible and doesn’t happen. Plenty of DC spend hours having religious instruction in addition to school. So late nights and no play for them. We also had loads of lost reading books. No one listened to some DC reading or even bothered to feed them properly. Lunch might be a bag of crisps.

Kokeshi123 · 18/11/2019 23:57

Plenty of DC spend hours having religious instruction in addition to school. So late nights and no play for them.

That sounds grim. How much time in religious instruction!?!?

SquashedFlyBiscuit · 19/11/2019 06:01

Even more important then that their playtime isnt taken away from them at school really isnt it :(

NeurotrashWarrior · 20/11/2019 21:35

Lol I wish! I got out of mainstream for these sorts of reasons. In Sen we meet the needs of the children. Primary aim is to be happy and keen to learn. Otherwise, learning simply doesn't happen - but it's should be like this for all children!

It's utter madness to punish children for no homework. Completely nuts. What are they learning? To be scared.

I can't comment on behaviour policies properly unfortunately but I bet you're not the only parent and child to find it distressing and unnecessary. I'd find out who else is having issues and agree to write to head governors etc.

And some people wonder why there's such high mental health issues in teens...

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