I had a colleague come to see me with a similar question with a couple of high ability children after she’d taught this as she had different answers to them! I had to tell her they were right and she was wrong and explain why. BODMAS/BIDMAS is a useful acronym but is confusing if the understanding isn’t there (as demonstrated on this thread where people are adamant addition should be done before subtraction)..
Yes, primary teachers should know this. Problem is, we aren’t all maths specialists. The minimum maths grade for a primary teacher at GCSE is C, the new y6 curriculum isn’t much below that. I struggle with some of the harder grammar bits of y6 to be honest.
OP, I’d go back to the teacher and explain they have it wrong, they won’t appreciate it but they need to know! If they won’t speak to you I’d ask to see the head of maths, it’s important kids aren’t taught things incorrectly. Let’s just hope that teacher isn’t the head of maths themselves.