Hope someone might be able to give some advice: DS is about to start reception and his mother and I are divorced. We currently have an amicable 60:40 co-parenting arrangement, with her being the 60% primary caregiver (as I work full time and she does not).
I just found out DS and ExW had a home visit from the school. I don't mind this at all and understand its a good thing, however I've since been told that one of the reasons for home visits is that parents can have a chance to meet the teacher and discuss any concerns, ask questions, etc.
As I have my son 40% of the time, AIBU to feel concerned I haven't had this opportunity myself? Having not been there I'm not sure exactly if having the chance to meet the teacher myself would have made much of a difference however on the other hand I worry the school are just making a snap judgement of "Mum's the caregiver" when a significant proportion of the caregiving is actually done by myself. I wasn't even made aware home visits were actually made until after the event - my Ex-wife didn't feel she needed to give me a heads-up beforehand and only told me after.
Hoping I'm just making a mountain out of a molehill here. Any parents in a similar situation?