Older Child:
Will the school do bombardment-type testing (I think it used to be CAT testing? to see where she's at or would I need to request it?
CT will informally assess from Day 1, probably formally assess later in the term. If either throws up an issue they will adjust teaching and refer to Senco if necessary.
If the LEA would have provided language support had she only spoken German, would they still be prepared to offer such a person for literacy support or will the Senco arrange that?
Unlikely that there will be any additional support, unless it becomes apparent she is not picking up English due to a language difficulty. Maybe some additional English sessions if the school run them anyway. If you are a Service family, or she is fostered, adopted or entitled to free school meals, the school can claim additional Pupil Premium funding which they could use for additional support.
Will she be forced to unlearn European cursive writing and have to learn British cursive?
No, unless punctuation or mathematical symbols are different.
Finally, will they be able to test her current reading age for me?
They may test anyway. If they don't, they are unlikely to test her for you. You may only be told whether or not she is on track/ at age-related expectations - since levels were abolished, schools have their own methods of recording progress and attainment mid-key stage.
Younger child:
Is there any way that I can appeal to the LEA or School directly for him to start Reception as opposed to year 1?
He will go into Year 2. Make sure you have applied for the right year-group as it may make a difference as to whether he gets a place as there are class number limits I’m key stage 1.
Will the school allow a part-time timetable at first given his anxieties?
Discuss with Senco and headteacher. Expect them to say try full time first, unless you have medical or kindergarten evidence to support that he would struggle.
Do parents have the right to request an ILP/IEP assessment from the off or can this referral only come via the class teacher to the Senco?
Schools and/ or Parents can apply to the Local Authority for an Education Health and Care Plan (which have replaced Statements) Assessment, but need strong evidence of needs and interventions tried to back this up, and the application to be assessed can be refused.
Will there be access to an Ed Psych?
Schools can access EPs but may have to buy this in so unlikely until they have seen for themselves that they need additional advice. EP assessment is part of the EHCP assessment process. If you arrange a private assessment, the findings may or may not be accepted by the school.
If anxiety is going to cause issues with attendance and punctuality, can a home-school liaison/ewo support me or should I go directly to social services?
Attendance is a hot topic at present and schools have to show they have acted when it reaches certain levels. Poor attendance is a red flag to there being other issues in the home, so work with the school, meet with them and try to find solutions together, as failure to engage is another red flag.
So...if you were the Senco or Class teacher what would you be able to do for me in September and would you be prepared to meet a new parent pre term starting/quick meeting on the inset day or would that be totally out the question?
Should I contact the school directly to set up such a meeting or will I be automatically labelled as 'that parent'?
What would your advice be with regard to communicating any/all of the above and first steps to getting a diagnosis for the youngest?
Or do I just let the Senco/teacher lead and assume they will pick up on issues from the first day?
Apart from making the class teacher aware of the language issues, your older child should be able to just start school. I'd introduce yourself to the class teacher on drop off or pick up and have a quick Is-everything-going-ok chat in the first week, and tackle any issues if they arrive.
With the younger child, I would make an appointment to meet with or have a telephone conversation with the Senco to discuss his needs, as soon as you are allocated the school place. Bring or send (translated copies of) any relevant medical or kindergarten reports. Flag up the anxiety and possible attendance issues, and whether or not to start full time.