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DS age 7 can read but won't read. What can I do?

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Honesttodog · 06/03/2019 12:42

STILL waiting for the lightbulb moment..

He reads well enough, will read a small amount daily from his reading book in order to fulfil his homework commitment, but he has not finished any of the books most boys his age seem to enjoy. He has read the Twits in class, we've read George's marvellous medicine together, i got him the Greg James book on CD so he could listen, but he never finished listening, and he just never finishes a book!

He basically loves factual books but as a massive reader with one DD who is a massive reader I feel like i'm weeping inside because we have so many books and he might look at them but rarely gets stuck in. I just thought it would come naturally and I'm so sad that it hasn't.

To be honest I think his lack of interest has put me off reading to him and I often let him look at books on his own at bedtime rather than reading aloud . He can read, he can read in his head, i feel like he ought to be be enjoying books on his own at this age. Should I just keep reading to him every night and hope he'll take over over one day? On the flip side he is very interested in cars, minecraft, lego and he is good at playing on his own, so he can definitely achieve flow in other aspects of his life.

I also think he knows that i am frustrated with his reading but it is just maddening! So often when we read we end up talking about reading more.

i recently read a story about a guy whose dad used to just get a different book out for him every week and after months, the son finally picked up one of them and loved it, but I JUST DONT HAVE THE PATIENCE.

are any of you on the other side of this and have boys who read lots now? Just looking at the read for good readathon sponsor card lying on the table and smh, there is just no sodding way Sad

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billybagpuss · 06/03/2019 15:21

Have you had his eyes tested recently?

DD2 had this issue, she could read, quite well actually, but had to focus really hard (she had tracking issues) so got tired very quickly so had no enthusiasm for it.

AuntVanya · 06/03/2019 15:32

Biggest piece of advice would be to carry on reading to him. Get him enthusiastic about/ interested in stories or information and the reading for himself will follow eventually.
Get him the Beano or 110% Gaming or whatever comic he might be interested in. Watch a movie- then read the book. Take him to the library and let him choose- even if it's a picture book. Try looking at kids' websites about stuff he likes- it's still reading, even if it's not a classic novel! Offer him lots of opportunities to read but don't expect, and don't pressurise.
Do the minimum that school require but dont show your frustration!!!! Praise him.

Lara53 · 07/03/2019 15:39

My DS1 was like this until he read Harry Potter age 10, and DS2 has just begun to enjoy reading at 11. Keep reading to him, let him see you reading, put audio books on in the car etc and don’t stress

sproutsandparsnips · 07/03/2019 17:13

DS2 is exactly like this. He can read but doesn't enjoy fiction. We have had more luck with science books/books about the human body. He enjoys drawing and I've managed to get him reading Tin Tin and the Beano but that's it.

HexagonalBattenburg · 08/03/2019 07:57

My brother was like this - would only ever read non fiction at that age... then later on he discovered those military "trapped behind enemy lines with only my wits and a rusty paperclip to survive" type books and devoured them. Now he's forever posting reviews of the most uber-pretentious prize winning novels on FB... so it'll come.

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