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Good parenting- tips needed how to help 7 year old who is behind in learning catch up

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Cantthinkofnameargh · 18/08/2018 21:16

Regular poster, name change here

My son is 7 years old and behind in school. He falls short of average level. I think he can do better. I am not expecting him to be the best in the class or school but just reach his potential. The school doesn't want to provide any extra help as there are 10 kids in his class that are deemed to need support compared to him. I feel that in primary schools it's always kids near the middle group that suffer.

I would like to help him but I'm not sure what to do. He does activities like swimming, karate and football.his main interest in lego so we have been to legoland quite a few times.

However would like to help him on the academic side in a fun way. What can I do? For example in the holidays I've tried to get him to write a diary - just a few lines what he did with a picture but he absolutely hates that.we have been to a few museums and sometimes I get him to read 1 or 2 lines from a sign with information eg dinosaur museum - an easy sign to read. He finds this boring.even when the school gives out craft projects he picks the craft option rather then writing option which is fine but then he doesn't want to do any of the craft making and wants me to do it. What can I do to get him to be interested and excited about learning?

I really hope anyone can give advice or tips even if you think it sounds obvious. The reason is that I come from a background where the traditional norm is learning means sit at a desk and practice until perfect , go to Kumon, get a tutor. However I'm interested in finding about the fun way and don't know how to do this

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CherryBlossom23 · 22/08/2018 22:07

Google Brave writer. It's a writing programme initially designed for homeschoolers but its fantastic for helping kids to find their voice and make writing fun for them. Some materials are a bit American but the concepts behind them are universal.

Cantthinkofnameargh · 22/08/2018 22:24

CherryBlossom23

I've just had a Google. It looks really good. Thanks very muchSmile

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ParentTrapped · 29/08/2018 23:08

Hi Cantthinkofnameargh, I was recommended by my little ones teacher to make everything a game and related to something they are interested in. For example if he likes lego and football, try and buy books about lego and football to read, and keep them within his ability to begin with. Most kids like games, so if you try and make everything a game then often they can learn without even realising! If it is a craft project then could it be built out of lego, we had to do a habitats project once and one of the kids in my daughters class made an amazing lego habitat! Just an idea..

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