Having moved from poor to fairly affluent as a family these are the opportunities I am grateful I can give my child and I subsequently realise that I could not if our situation had stayed as previous (and we were not so poor as to need fsm but I grew up in that kind of environment)
Choice of school ...being able to throw money into renting after we realised the little house we moved to was in perfect catchment for best schools in area. Being able to not have to choose the nearest secondary school and paying train/bus fares to ensure Dd could attend school right for her
Paying for school trips (I remember as a child we only took up one offer from the school for monetary assistance for the end of year residential..DM pawned a gold necklace to buy toiletries/clothes etc for it)
Music lessons ...Dd suffers terribly with her mental health if she didnt have this extracurricular outlet ive no doubt her attainment in school would be affected.
Holidays and experiences..just because a museum is free doesnt mean the whole day out doesnt come at a cost, experiences such as these are a didactic enrichment activity for kids (e.g Dd learning loads of Spanish at 4 years old one holiday)
Helping with homework / reading etc. (My mum had loads of kids , always trying to make ends meet, running the house or finding a new man ...can not recall a time she read me a story ..ever or helped with homework)
Caring responsibilities with money comes choice for afterschool care etc ..also,in the past there have been family members who have needed help getting to hospital appointments etc a decent working car helps ! Dd doesnt have any caring responsibilities herself - I did ..bit hard to do your homework whilst also looking after your little sisters or a parent who is ill.
Advice guidance etc. Im pretty clued up about education choices ..next steps after secondary, the requirement for financing etc my mother wasn't ..sometimes encouraged us to go to uni sometimes encouraged us to be beauty therapists...no -one told me that it may be a bad idea to undertake an a level in two subjects disregarded by russell group unis which werent very academic...ended up at the only uni that would accept me doing a course I didnt really like , not being able to afford to live as my maintenance grant didnt even cover my rent ..ended up dropping out.. affected my income level for many many years
I could go on...the fact of the matter is my life is so much easier with money than without. Some of the factors I describe could just be down to a rubbish parent but that parent couldnt make good the potential gaps in attainment due to lack of funds.
In addition there is a whole lot more to being poor than just lack of money .
There are some rather sneery attitudes on this thread
have a bit of empathy and insight why dont you ?