Jumping, I was in your shoes about 5 years ago when DD was in reception. I talked to a lot of knowledgeable Mumsnenetters who pointed me in the direction of other help. Thank you Mrz, Feenie, Maisie and all the other helpful posters.
I had the Reading Recovery conversation and the balanced approach conversation and some not very nice conversations with the school. It was actually an awful time,I tried to change things for the better for all the children but I made little if any difference and it made relationships with the school quite tense at times.
I quickly understood that I would need to teach my child myself. I used Sounds-Write which is brilliant and has more apps now and even an Udemy course now. I also like Phonics International, you must get their free alphabetic code charts!
The school was recently given Ofsted Outstanding. There are still issues with the phonics teaching, some of which are noted in the Ofsted Report.
Ofsted seem just as confused about phonics as many other people and teachers. If you are one of the people who brought in the National Literacy Strategy, which called for mixed methods, when you become an Ofsted inspector nothing is really going to change. If another Ofsted Inspector is mixed up with Reading Recovery what chance do you have?
My DD is fine but may of her classmates are not.
It's easy to improve on dire results. I wonder if we are at the same school...
I tried to change the school but realised I could only change what I could change. I helped my daughter and I talked to people, some think I am a nutter but I have helped others with information and guidance. I am now working undercover (insert phonics sleuth emoji) as I have turned a VIP with links to the school-we will see if we manage to do anything.
I suppose what I am saying is ignore the school and do it yourself. The faster you and your child can learn the less effects the schools mixed methods will have on them.
If you have money to throw at the problem do that. My DD hasn't read a school reading books since she brought one home about a hippopotamus in the November of reception. When the teacher writes int he home-school reading record that they need to know what books my DD has read I write them a list, it's just not a list books that the school have.
We used the phonically decodable Reading Chest books and got the most expensive subscription, we only needed it for about a year and then we could start on normal books. Mrz says that Sounds-Write do the books on-line now which would be brilliant. I was lucky enough to go on a Sounds-Write course, but you could maybe do the free Udemy.
I suppose I am saying my inner-idealist really tried to make a difference to all the children but shes taking a bit of a battering and isn't sure if she'd do it again in a hurry!
these are the Phonics International charts.
alphabeticcodecharts.com/
this is the SOunds-Write Udemy (a free on-line course) www.udemy.com/help-your-child-to-read-and-write
go here to look at reading books to buy and the iPad app
www.sounds-write.co.uk/page-8-books-and-resources.aspx