This is a short discussion of how to approach catastrophes when it comes to young children. The speaker is Fred Rogers, who was a mainstay of Public Television in the US for a few decades. His show 'Mister Rogers Neighborhood' covered all sorts of issues in a way that children could easily grasp. The approach he advised for commentary on disasters, etc, is to direct children's attention to the helpers, and the rescuers.
www.fredrogers.org/parents/special-challenges/tragic-events.php
Fred Rogers website, with advice for parents on how to talk to children about disasters or worrying events. It could easily be adapted for school use.
Children do not need to know the nuts and bolts of all the negative stuff that is happening in the world, or why it is happening. They cannot cope on an emotional level with terrorism or famine or extreme poverty or racism. They can cope with encouragement to be kind to the other children in their class and school, and they need reassurance that they will continue to be cared for by parents and teachers.
In worrying times (and what times are not worrying - I was a child in the age of Mutually Assured Destruction) they need reassurance that someone cares about them and will look after them and they will be ok. Their own emotions are the only thing we need to address with them.
From the website:
Talking and Listening
Even if we wanted to, it would be impossible to give our children all the reasons for such things as war, terrorists, abuse, murders, major fires, hurricanes, and earthquakes. If they ask questions, our best answer may be to ask them, "What do you think happened?" If the answer is "I don't know," then the simplest reply might be something like, "I'm sad about the news, and I'm worried. But I love you, and I'm here to care for you."
If we don't let children know it's okay to feel sad and scared, they may think something is wrong with them when they do feel that way. They certainly don't need to hear all the details of what's making us sad or scared, but if we can help them accept their own feelings as natural and normal, their feelings will be much more manageable for them.
Angry feelings are part of being human, especially when we feel powerless. One of the most important messages we can give our children is, "It's okay to be angry, but it's not okay to hurt ourselves or others." Besides giving children the right to their anger, we can help them find constructive things to do with their feelings. This way, we'll be giving them useful tools that will serve them all their life, and help them to become the worlds' future peacemakers -- the world's future "helpers."