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6yr old DS says he doesn't like school

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Polkatot · 09/09/2017 22:06

My 6yr old has just started year 2. It's a big but nurturing school and he has been there since reception. He's got a little group of friends who he plays with (verified by his teacher) and he's an outgoing, sociable boy.

At the end of year 1, my son started to say he hated school - but despite me asking him in various ways, he could never really give me a clear reason why. He'd say it was 'boring', or sometimes that it was too hard. His teacher has said he's very capable academically and that he's easily coping with the work. He does find it hard to concentrate at times, which I guess is partly his age but temperament too.

Roll forward to now... he's got a new teacher and all his old friendship group but he keeps saying he doesn't want to go and he'd rather be at home with me. I still can't really get any clear reason from him but it's obvious he isn't really happy about going each day. He's being very clingy with me at the moment.

I've got a parents evening coming up so I'll be bringing it up with his teacher but should I be doing anything else at this stage? Part of me thinks it's just a phase but I feel I should be doing more to help - maybe some easy maths stuff at home as I know he worries a bit about maths, although he seems to be doing fine according to his latest report.

His friends all say they like school which makes me feel worse!

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Crazycatsandkids · 10/09/2017 09:13

School doesn't suit every kid
Some will go through phases of this
I certainly wouldn't start loading on extra work at home if he's already finding school boring and is academically achieving the goals
Could you do some play dates with the kids he likes to get more of a bond going?

RedSkyAtNight · 10/09/2017 09:18

My DS said he hated school from Y2-Y5.
His reason was pretty much the same as your DS's - he'd rather have been home with me.

I'd certainly see if it's a phase before you do anything, and really can't see that more work at home will help even if it's not a phase!

viques · 10/09/2017 11:37

There is a big jump from Y1 to Y2 and for some it takes some getting used to, could be social things like waiting until the younger children have been served their lunch for example, and work stuff is likely to be slightly less relaxed, I know schools where Y2 don't get an afternoon play (I think this is mean personally) . Just be supportive, find something good to look forward to every day, pe day today, fish fingers for lunch, it's a settling in thing, he will get there.

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