I've searched, but failed to find, a draft letter requesting all DS's personal data.
Does anyone happen to know the online whereabouts of such a thing?
The information I've come across, so far, assumes I'm making the request to his current school.
The previous school is LA, his current is an academyou, and the process differs slightly between them.
How can I be sure they provide absolutely everything?
In December, the Home/School Liason Officer (I think that's her role; in my head, she's 'pastoral care'; I'm old), told me that the Deputy Head had taken a call from my sister, reporting 'concerns' (that I had a boyfriend, amongst other nonsense!)
During the same conversation, I discovered that this was the second such call, although the supposed boyfriend was a new story.
I suspect that the caller's identity was revealed, only inadvertently.
If this is the case, then I reckon they might utilise the 'danger to pupil...other person' clause, to withhold the transcripts (which I was assured, at the time, existed).
I'm really not planning to 'endanger' my sister in any way; the tactic might be new, but the shit stirring is old hat. This was merely the final straw, the catalyst; DS and I have now moved to the other side of the country to put some physical distance between my family and us!
If, however, my suspicion is correct, I reckon they would want to cover their backs. (The actual staff member is great, BTW, we're FB friends now that DS is no longer a pupil there!
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TIA, anyone who made it to the end. I can see Ive written all this in my usual clumsy (non)style, but I fear I'm just too aged to master 'casual'. Not pompous also needs work...)