Hi, my DD has missed 4 weeks school since beg March due to 2 separate illness and missed last week due to the same thing and now a relative she was close to has died suddenly. " class teacher have left her class since September and there was a major incident of aggression from one child in her class a few months ago which resulted in their explusion but has left many kids with nightmares. She is bright and normally v happy to do tests and passed the 11 plus well. But I have had her in tears all week, scared to do the tests next week in case she does badly and it will be on her record for ever. She is going to Grammar school in Sept and I cant find out if they use the sats results for anything. I am tempted just to accept she has had a really bad run of things (she hasn't really done any prep) and not let her sit them but the school told me this would be on her record forever (i.e. ungraded).I am worried about doing the wrong thing but also worried that next week is going to be too much for her and set up a pattern of her worrying about tests. The school want her to sit them but admit they are being selfish in that wish. Help.....