I'm going to have to be as vague as possible as I think a few of the mums from Dd's school are on here.
Dd is at a prep school, things went well in her reception year and also in the beginning of year 1.
For the past few months there have been lots of incidents that have really concerned me.
The school got a really awful review by the independent school regulatory body and things went downhill pretty quickly.
There was a mass exit of staff and students and the school was down to absolute bear bones staff and students for a few months.
Dd's lovely teacher left and dd has since gotten a new teacher and there have been quite a few incidents that have made me uncomfortable where dd has been left in a risky situation.
I spoke to the teacher informally and was assured it was a one off but then a few days later dd had been put in the same situation again.
I spoke to the head teacher who agreed the situation she had been left in was a safeguarding issue and that the teacher would be spoken to, she also filled out an incident form.
A few days later dd was again put in the same situation again I told head teacher this was a regular thing now and it was not good.
Was reassured again this would never happen again and governors were informed as all agreed it was a risk that dd should not have been place at.
I went in school today and once again I found dd in the same situation except this time it was even worse.
I told the head teacher i couldn't believe this had happened again. (The situation means that dd is not safe at school, it's really difficult to go into but she was under no supervision at all when she REALLY should have been)
I took dd home early and I just don't want to send her in again tomorrow.
There have also been issues with the school putting lots of pressure on the students due to the bad inspection and there are open days constantly where theee are parents and children in and out of Dd's class all day, lots of children coming to spend the morning to see if the parents like the school and lots of distraction and lack of consistency.
Dd is just miserable at school at the moment.
She cries every single day all the way to school and is still crying when I leave her. She's nearly 7 and she's never ever been a clingy child when it comes to school.
There are also several other major'ish' issues but I know I will definitely be outed if I go into them.
My issue is I really really don't want her to go back to school after today.
The school are not safeguarding dd at all imo and it doesn't matter how many times I bring it up dd is still put in a situation regularly that the head teacher and governors have all agreed is in appropriate.
It's the Easter holidays here (N/E) for all the state schools so I can't even phone the local schools to see if I can get her a place after the Easter holidays.
I'm really just wondering if it is wise to deregister dd from her school tonight, in hope that I can get her in a local school after Easter?
Or is any school better than no school?
I don't know if the LA will help us more if she doesn't have a school place but equally I don't want her to be without a school, although the one she is at doesn't really feel like an option.
I was also wondering how quickly dd will be able to start a school on the off chance I can get hold of someone in the local council school admissions office tomorrow is after the Easter holidays realistic?
If anyone has any advice that might help me I'd be really really grateful.