I am so confused by the whole thing that it is no wonder DD is too.
She is in a Reception equivalent, so first year of school.
They have explained that it is bad practice to teach sight words and that they wouldn't be sent home with flashcards.
However, DD is completely unable to read words like 'you' and 'here', because they don't follow the phonic code. They have done the 'oo' spelling of the oo sound, but did not link this to words like you.
She has basically memorised the, I, he, she, etc.