Applying for a reception place for DD. Two schools near us so possibly we could get into either as a first choice.
School 1 has a lovely, nurturing atmosphere, great reputation, is academically excellent. Outstanding Ofsted rating. It is 1FE.
School 2 doesn't have the same academic results or reputation though it is improving and has a good Ofsted. It's certainly not a bad school and the kids seem happy. It is 2FE.
Until now I've thought school 1 was a no-brainer. DD is quite quiet and loves reading, writing, maths etc. I figured the smaller environment would suit her. But lately I've been worrying that a smaller school might not be so great for friendships. Even now at nursery I see little cliques forming - she has two 'best friends' but when the three are together the other two are obviously closer and sometimes leave her out. It doesn't really bother her at this age but am sure it would when she's older (if she was a boy this wouldn't worry me). So I'm thinking 2FE would give her more friends to choose from and she's more likely to find her tribe IYSWIM.
DH says I'm over-thinking the friends thing and that you can't predict that side of things. Is he right? I think he might be but just don't know.