Hi
I'm new to mumsnet.
My dd is in Year 4 and is a bright and hard working little girl. The School she attends has a very mixed intake (60% disadvantaged) and a some children find learning and behaving difficult. My dd is doing well academically and has always received extension work in previous years.
She left Y2 as 3b and Y3 as exceeding +. I have just attended parents' evening and her new teacher said dd has been levelled as Y4 secure+ (new school levelling)? and is at a mastery level for the year group. She added that in the new curriculum dd can't go on to Y5 levelling. I asked if dd would be stretched sideways as she had been in previous years. Her teacher asked me what extension tasks I would like dd to be given, I answered honestly that I didn't know and we just moved on to something else.
I am very relaxed about my children's education, as long as they are happy, trying their best and behaving well, I'm a happy mum. In four years I haven't had to raise anything with the school, pleased with teachers' and both my children have always been happy. For the first time, I am a little concerned as my dd has mentioned that after completing her maths task she moves to a different table to help three classmates who find maths a little tricky. Dd said she sometimes enjoys this but she can find it stressful as they find it hard to listen. She said she would like extra work sometimes as has happened in previous years. I know assisting other children will be beneficial in terms of stretching sideways but I'm wondering if this should be mixed with additional work? I am aware the School performed very low on new assessments and priority is getting the Children to expected level. Imo the school do an amazing job with the more vulnerable pupils and the TA's are deployed to these groups. I understand this and do agree that resources and staff time should go to those who need it most, I just can't help feeling worried my dd may not reach her full potential or could become a little bored and lose some of her natural love of learning.
My hubby and I are not sure if we should monitor things until the Christmas break and then ask the teacher for an appointment to discuss things or ask for one sooner? This is the procedure to speak to the teacher in our large school.
Just to add we're not in a grammar area and dd will be going to the local high school so there's no pressure with getting her to a certain level.
Sorry for rambling on. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.