My ds had an altercation with another boy in his class, they are 8yrs old and this other boy has been a bully to most of the other children in the class since nursery (4 years ago) the school has had several complaints about childs behaviour and parents have been called into school etc. etc. On Fri ds told me other child hit him and ds put his arm up to defend himself and his nail caught other kids finger and scratched him, about 1cm long not deep etc. Ds never gets into trouble for fighting (bit of a wimp really) but other child always fighting, both kids got told off (I was a bit annoyed at this, but thought what's done is done), when mum of other kid picked him up I saw her talking to teacher and thought nothing of it, ds was telling me what had happened, and slowly walk off to go home. Mum of other child ran to catch up with me then yelled at me 'your son scratched my son' I said 'I don't want to talk about in street, but will discuss back at school', she then started swearing at me ' your son too F good to hurt my son' ' your F son too prescious to talk about' at this point I said I would not talk here but would go back to the school. She repeated the above at which point I had reached my car and told her I was leaving and crossed the road, I opened the car door for ds to climb in and then she shouted at me 'I hope you die in childbirth' (I'm 6m pregnant) shocked I looked at her and said 'what' to my disbelife she repeated it!!!! and in front of ds and her kid. I was so horrified I went straight back to the school and reported it. They took it seriously but what can they do? and what should I do now?, ds now adamant he has to be there at the birth, but I'm having cs so not possible, he's far more upset about it than I realised. HELP!!