neither of you were there so neither of you can say whether archery was given incorrect information
She may well have been given incorrect information. I have not denied that. However, in her post at 18:58 yesterday she admitted that she could have listed this school as one of her preferences. So she has said she could have applied yet still states that she was prevented from applying for a place. All I am doing is trying to make her understand that she was not prevented from applying. Not qualifying for a place is not the same as being prevented from applying. If she had named the school as one of her preferences and it had been a freak year with very few applicants she could have got a place.
She says that, due to the school not giving her an SIF, her child would have been in the lowest category for admissions. If that is correct, even if the school had given her an SIF and she had submitted it her child would still have been in the lowest category. The sole function of the SIF is to determine whether an applicant qualifies for the categories for Catholic children. As she is not Catholic her child would not have qualified. It appears she did not understand that which is why I have been trying to explain it to her.
Note that I have never accused her of lying. I have been happy to accept that she was mistaken. I'm sorry you think I am behaving like a classroom bully for trying to explain to her that she could have applied.