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V strange arrangements for DS starting school - should I say anything?

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funnyfoursome · 28/08/2016 19:47

Hi!
DS is starting Reception. I was under the impression he'd do a week or two of half days and build up gradually to full-time. Admittedly this would have suited him as he just turned 4 two days ago and tires very quickly.
I was really surprised to find out last term that they are splitting the class of 30 into groups of 10 (roughly Autumn/Spring/Summer birthdays and having them in school on different days. Their logic is that groups of 10, or 20 when the groups are combined, gives the teachers a chance to observe them. I understand this.
However this means that in week 1, DS goes to school on the Wednesday only. Nothing on the other days. Same in Week 2, then full-time from Monday week 3.
The older children get 3 days overall rather than the 2 days in Week 1 and 2.
I feel cross about this as I don't feel some children should have more days than others. Why should the youngest have less chance to be observed?
Also I don't think this is a sensible introduction to school for the children. I've decided to tell my son he's 'visiting' school rather than starting school. How do you tell a 4 year old he's not going to school for another week?! It seems bonkers to me!!
Historically I think parents who need childcare have complained about half days, so this may be the reason, but I feel school arrangements should be in the children's interests not parents, and anyway is this any better for working parents?!
Should I let it go, or should I talk it through with school?? I don't want to be branded a difficult parent before term even starts!! And nothing is going to change. I might want a job there some day so trying to keep quiet but feeling cross really... Any advice please??

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Owlytellsmesecrets · 31/08/2016 19:57

Jeez ours just start back with the older kids and do the full day !!!! Yep they are tired but as long as they are getting a good nights sleep it's fine! You can just send them in for mornings for the first week but no-one does.

somekindofmother · 31/08/2016 20:29

ours do
summer born Wednesday half day
summer and Spring born Thursday half day
all kids Friday half day
all kids Monday half day
all kids Tuesday until 2pm
all kids full day Wednesday.

they've already done 2 afternoons at schools (one we parent, one without)

your school are all over the place. ours prioritise summer borns as they say they need the extra time and often get lost in a large group of kids who can be up to a year older. I don't have a summer born but I think they're right.

MiaowTheCat · 01/09/2016 12:28

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Mumoftwoyoungkids · 01/09/2016 12:40

Ours do "8:45am on the first day of school - they all start school!" The End.

There is an option to do half days either to half term or Xmas but apparently only 1 or 2 do it (out of 90). The school has a thriving nursery and generally about 70/90 kids have attended the nursery and for the last couple of weeks of term the reception teachers spend time with the nursery kids and they play in the reception classroom so that helps them settle in.

I was very excited about the "starting school tiredness" that I was promised (Dd needs very little sleep) but it didn't appear. Maybe because she had been in nursery 3 days a week since 11 months.

ShelaghTurner · 01/09/2016 13:03

I would love a more staggered start for DD2 (Jan birthday) but she starts back next Tuesday straight in, full days, no messing.

birdieeeeeeeee · 01/09/2016 13:04

When DS started reception last year rather than staggered starts they had a few days at the end of last term I guessing it was the same this year as the week before they broke up each class spent the majority of the day in their new room with their new teacher.

funnyfoursome · 02/09/2016 21:25

Thanks all! No I was not in any way expecting anything to be changed, and it doesn't bother me enough to stick my neck out (I am not going to be 'that parent' thanks Trumpette).
I've been in education 19 years and I just get the impression that these arrangements are to suit the school (I don't think they are having any children for 3 or 4 days in the first fortnight!), and/or someone has been on too many courses/ conferences and is trying out wacky ideas!!
Give me the half days scenario any day But hey I'm sure they will all settle fine and get into the routine. Thanks again everyone!

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Feenie · 03/09/2016 02:38

Presuming the radio silence is because of copious link reading.

You have to hope, don't you Wink

Feenie · 03/09/2016 02:40

Really sorry, wrong thread!

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