The worst thing that phonics evangelists do for parents is leaving them needlessly worried that their way of helping children might be doing them harm. - Especially that teaching them to read a few words as wholes might make them incapable of learning phonics. This is pure nonsense.
Hi, this is how I feel having read this and similar threads on phonics.
DD has just started reception. Prior to starting school she has somehow amassed quite a large sight vocabulary - I would say easily in excess of 100 words now. We haven't actively taught her any - she's just picked them up from here, there and everywhere. How do you stop an observant, inquisitive child with a good memory from learning whole words?
We didn't go near phonics with her, felt it was best to leave that to school. After coming home with a wordless book at first, I noted in her reading diary that she could read all the words on the cover. Since then she's been bringing home ORT yellow band books which she gets through quite well.
What I have noticed though is that she is quite quick to guess a word she doesn't know and assign something that just starts or looks similar. For example she guessed "sad" as "sainsburys" - now obviously she doesn't have the skills to blend (I don't think they've started phonics in earnest yet) but she could know through context that isn't likely to be right. "Jan" in last night's book was consistently read as "Jayden" (I'm guessing there's a Jayden in her class!)
So - basically I'm concerned that once she has been taught to blend, that she's going to be lazy and just guess them to be words she does know instead. I know it's early days and there might be no problems whatsoever. But if there are, how could we have prevented her from learning whole words?