Hello, new to Mumsnet so please be gentle:)
My DD is in Yr2. Even though there has been no major issues since she has been there, eg bullying, I have never liked the school and my gut instinct hasn't changed over 2 years -even though we are surrounded by selective secondaries in our area, from what I can tell, most pupils at the current primary go to the local non-selectives. I say 'from what I can tell' as when I asked for data on destination schools for leavers, the school told me they had never ever been asked for that info and would find out if there are allowed to disclose that info (they never got back to me). This is not the only reason but to cut a long story short, I am desperate for her to move to the extent that I have been considering moving, not that that helps much as you then just join a waiting list somewhere and hope for the best.
On a whim, I phoned another local school and by some miracle there are actually some places in my DD's class - the admissions lady said as there are vacancies, distance is irrelevant and it is therefore first come, first served (we were out of catchment so couldnt apply to this particular school at Reception stage). I would be over the moon for DD to go there, although we have arranged a visit next week just to check it mirrors my impression of it.
LEA's process is that I have to have a meeting with the current Head who has to sign the form before the LEA considers the transfer application. Have set up the meeting for next week. My question is what have others said as a reason if there is no true 'problem' with the current school - is it acceptable to say simply that the other school was always my school of choice. I dont want to start a discussion on the current school's attainment etc as then the current school will be obliged to work with me to work through my concerns and by the time we go through all of that, the other school's vacancies will probably have been filled.
Can the current head refuse to sign? If so, can the LEA still process the application or can they themselves turn down the application if they feel that I don't have a valid reason? I have tried to find out my LEA's approach but their relevant literature doesn't cover this, it just goes on about how much the LEA discourages in year transfers as it is disruptive to the child.
Sorry for long post but I am going crazy knowing what a rare gift a vacancy is and feel sick that it is up the current head to decide whether I stay or go.