Hello. I've got a bit of an unusual situation. We moved last academic year, and my 3 kids ended up at 2 separate primary schools due to there not being space for all of them in any one school. We appealed to get our reception age child placed with her brothers unsuccessfully due to the infant class size limit of 30. There were 30 in the class at the time.
Fast forward to July. I applied again for my youngest child to enter year 1. Again, the school rejected her. This time because there are now 32 children in that year group, meaning 2 got through on appeal.
I've got the forms for appealing…but I found the whole thing so awful last time- like I was a terrible person for daring to appeal- that I'm wavering as to whether I should actually do it. Both schools are not the nearest to our house- that was full. In distance the youngest is the nearest, then the older boys (going into year 3 and 5). We also appealed for the boys to go to the little girls school unsuccessfully. That experience was even worse- another parent (governor) basically telling me how inconsiderate I was to even think about it! And the boys don't want to go there anyway.
My situation has changed since the first appeal. I am now a single mother, with no support network around me. I didn't tell them the first time, but I have depression for years, and obviously, now their father has left I'm under a lot of strain. I have to drive the kids to school…my car is unreliable, I don't have a job (had to give it up to move and am trying to get another) so can't afford a new one. When it's broken down the school run has been difficult- one location would be fine, and walkable, 2 was a nightmare, so that now I just don't bother even attempting it if the car doesn't work. My daughter is really feeling the effect of her father leaving. She wants to be with her brothers. She is not sleeping, and said to me the other week "daddy doesn't like me, because he left, and my brothers school doesn't like me because they let other people in and not me". She knows that there are new reception people as her brother told her. I have tried to reassure her that none of the things that have happened are down to people not liking her, but it just worries me what is going on in her head.
The boys don't want to move school again and I don't blame them. They are very, very happy at their current school. My eldest is very bright, and I had a real battle getting him to his previous school as he was 'bored' all the time. He's also very quiet and slow to make friends (but when he does they are strong friendships) and although I don't think moving would be good for either of them, I think it would have more of a negative impact on him. Given that the kids have already had a lot of upset in their lives, I don't really want to cause them any more.
So, I think I have reasons for appeal. But I'm concerned that they are not good enough for the local authority and that once again, if I go, I'm just going to be treated like I'm wanting to deprive every other child at the school of a decent education just because I want all my children to go to the same school.
I'd really appreciate any insight into anyone else's experience, as I don't know anyone in real life who has had to appeal against infant class size limit.