Hoping for some advice...
We moved house about 18 months ago. While we didn't love the house, and knew we would need to do a lot of work to it to make it work for us, it is in a nice area and most importantly near to a good primary school (have 2 dc, 2.5 and 4 months).
So roll on 18 months, and we are not happy with the house. We will have to do way more work to it than originally thought, and as it's not our ideal house, are loathe to spend the cash and have all the disruption to end up with something that is just ok and not our ideal house. We think in hindsight it was probably the wrong house to buy. We really want an older house with character, and to be closer to town ( we are in suburbia with no walkable shop/bar/cafe etc). It is also close to the airport which annoys us more than expected, and the commute is also worse than we thought.
Sorry for the long intro but it's relevant....
We have decided we are going to move, and have identified another area that works for us, and also has a fantastic (and oversubscribed) primary school. Obviously with dc1 being 3 in November, we need to get going as to give ourselves a chance of getting into our preferred school, we need to be living there in plenty of time before application deadlines, and would like dc1 to ideally attend a local preschool before starting school. We will need to live within 0.5miles of the school to be confident of getting a place.
But we really don't want to make another mistake on the house, and the sort of house we want won't come up that often. So while our ideal option is to sell our house and buy our next house in the next 18 months, if in that time a house doesn't come up that we want, I would rather rent a house in our preferred area, rather than compromise on the style of house again. Obviously if we rent a house near the school and our dc1 gets in, we would have more scope to buy slightly further away, which would obviously increase our choice of houses.
Now I am not trying to cheat the system here. While I think the system is broken, the rules are the rules. I want to live near the school so we can walk to it, want to be part of the local community, and be close to the train station for work (which is half a mile from the school). I also really really don't want to move twice, I want to buy our family house and settle.
But obviously if we can't find a house quickly, and we rented and the got the place, we could live a few hundred metres further away and potentially get the right house.
So if we have to do this - is there any risk this would be seen as fraudulent or cheating? Would we potentially lose our place? Or is it just wrong? Feel a bit stuck and stressed as I just want to be in our family house in the right area but feel we haven't got much time, which is so frustrating when I wanted to be sorted 18 months ago.
What do people think?