My son recently sat the 9+ at a pretty well-known selective school. I was surprised that he wasn't asked back for an interview, mostly because he's had pretty high INCAS (from 127 - 138) scores and does very well at school, but it was a super-tough year and I didn't think much about it.
Later, I had lunch with some friends whose son sat the same exam (at the same school as my son) and they told me that they were shocked that their son hadn't been asked for an interview because he's at the top of his class etc yada yada and they told me they had asked for feedback - he wasn't even close. They told him that our kids' school was well-known for not stretching the kids in the early years so as to prevent defection prior to the 11+.
So, I asked the school for my son's scores and they were shockingly low, like 25% in areas they were looking for 75%.
Then a second friend whose son sat the exam in year 3 told me that this same school told her the same thing - that the school was known for this tactic.
Is this normal?
Obviously I feel pretty aggrieved by this development, and what's even more vexing is that you can't really address this kind of crap at your kids' school because eventually you need the head to back your kid when the 11+ comes.
Any insight would be much appreciated.