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Disabled son not being offered a school place?

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ApignamedJasper · 17/03/2015 10:39

My ds2 is severely disabled, no physical disabilities or mobility issues so 'access' as such is not a problem but severe mental disability (autism) has a statement, needs 1:1 at all times and is still in nappies at 7. It is felt that currently he is coping in mainstream school and isn't currently eligible for a special school (waiting list a mile long).

We recently moved areas, necessitating a change of school for him and older ds. Because the area we moved to is much busier, ds1 is in a 'junior' school whereas ds2 needs to be placed in an 'infant' school until september when he too will move up into juniors. They school they were in before had both so they attended the same school. Ds1 was placed in a school within a week of moving, we specifically started applying for school places before we moved to limit the amount of time they both spent out of school.

Ds2 still has not been placed. We applied for a place at the same school as ds1 but at the infants part across the road and they were very reluctant, stated they couldn't get a 1:1, they wouldn't have anyone 'trained' to do nappy changes etc. They have since formally rejected him for a place. Ds2 Therefore has not been offered any school place and I am so angry! How can they even refuse him a place, I didn't think they were allowed to! How can they possibly say they cannot accomodate him? Since he has a statement I thought they were obliged by law to accomodate him! The longer he spends out of school the more difficult it will be for him, we specifically started applying before we moved to try and make the transition as smooth as possible but he's now been out of school for over a month and it's just not bloody acceptable to me. I'm 99% sure that the main problem is his disability, given that ds1 got a place so quickly!

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Hulababy · 24/03/2015 10:18

I don't know sorry. But I know that we had to purchase the large changing table when we had an older children outside of reception who would require changing (we are infants only).
I think legally only one member of staff is needed to change but good practise States two - to safeguard child and staff.

Nerf · 24/03/2015 14:21

Thank you Hula.

Nerf · 24/03/2015 14:21

Thank you Hula.

ApignamedJasper · 25/03/2015 20:53

It seems that's the nappy issue is a real trouble spot for the prospective HT. I really feel that she is delaying things and making more and more reasons not to accept him just to wait it out until the summer term is over and then ds will move up into the other school so it won't be her problem any more. Trouble is this would result in ds being out of school for a total of almost 7 months! How is this acceptable?! Even worse, we had a letter recently asking why he isn't in school! The fucking cheek of them!

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ApignamedJasper · 25/03/2015 20:54

Have contacted ipsea by the way, thank you for that :) Just waiting for a reply.

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beautifulgirls · 25/03/2015 21:47

Start threatening them with a disability discrimination tribunal if they don't sort a suitable placement out. This is completely unacceptable. I am sure IPSEA will give you sound advice.

zazzie · 26/03/2015 08:16

This is for the Local authority to sort out. They have a duty to provide what is on his statement and if they don't they are breaking the law. Keep ringing them. Keep emailing them. Sometimes constant hassle is the only way.

Icimoi · 26/03/2015 17:22

If you haven't heard from IPSEA, try SOS SEN. The local authority definitely has to find DS a school place without further delay; if it can't, it has to make other arrangements such as home tuition.

Nerf · 26/03/2015 19:07

Yes, unless the LA have told you that he has a place at the primary school you are worrying about the wrong thing - the LA have to find him a place. Can you email your SEN officer and ask him/her what school your son has been allocated, and which schools they approached?

bloodyteenagers · 26/03/2015 19:26

And what is the LA saying about other schools?

Nerf this is the government guidelines for mainstream.

www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/339027/Intimate_Care_Policy_final.pdf

Nerf · 26/03/2015 19:29

Thank you teenagers; that's really really helpful.

YonicScrewdriver · 26/03/2015 20:23

Op, if the school is full i think the HT cannot make the decision on her own to go over the ICS limit. The LA need to allow an exception, I believe.

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