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Discipline at primary school

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mypuppydog · 03/03/2015 16:40

I volunteer at my local primary school. Last week a teaching assistant was made to apologise to the parents of a 6 year old child who had been asked to pick up the litter he had dropped and place it in the bin. The deputy head stood by whilst the apology took place. How is this right? Why shouldn't the child be asked to pick up his own litter. Is this not part of education and learning how to behave? Is it not about respect – for yourself, others, the environment? Is he allowed to drop litter at home, in the street, in a shop, and not pick it up?
I know I'm older than all the mums but I have brought up a very successful son and can't see how putting that teacher through something so humiliating can possibly be right. I despair if the parents are not prepared to accept that sometimes their child is not perfect. You drop litter you pick it up!

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Verbena37 · 03/03/2015 19:43

That's terrible. If I was the Tara, I'd ask for an apology from the school !
She did nothing wrong in asking the child to pick up his own litter. Sure, a bit unreasonable getting young children to pick litter in the playground, but their own they just drop and refuse to pick up...nothing wrong whatsoever.

If that had been me and the school or the parents didn't apologise, I would leave.
The school has to support its staff but that is clearly not what happened here.

Verbena37 · 03/03/2015 19:44

TA it should have said....not Tara !!

IreneA78 · 04/03/2015 19:21

Surely there must be more to the story than that? Hmm

TwoOddSocks · 04/03/2015 20:17

What were they actually asked to apologise for? I can't imagine it was simply asking the kid to pick up their litter - surely it must have been the way they asked. (Not that they should necessarily be asked to apologise just trying to understand what actually happened).

Farahilda · 04/03/2015 20:21

I bet there's a huge back story to this.

lljkk · 04/03/2015 21:07

Oh, I believe it. Parents are some kind of king.
Our school had a policy of no chocolate in lunch boxes.
One of the Dinner Ladies said to a child with chockie bar in box "Now should you really have that in your lunchbox?" That really was all she said.
Dad came in threatening violence and DL had to apologise.

AliceinWinterWonderland · 04/03/2015 23:31

lljkk as it is quite possible a parent packed the lunch box, then IMO the dinner lady should be passing the information along to the teacher and allowing the teacher to bring it up with a parent. Confronting a child over what's put in their lunch box (when the child hasn't packed the lunch) is a bit silly - the child does not have control over what a parent has packed them for lunch.

Wellthen · 05/03/2015 18:25

How do you know this information?

mrz · 05/03/2015 20:51

Regardless of whether the dinner lady should have spoken to the child or not surely you don't think parents should threaten violence?

As to original post the deputy head handled the issue badly.

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