Thank you so much for all your responses!
Mumof3 I'm glad your DS has managed to pick it up. We have stopped using the aids at the moment. We got them in November, but neither we nor the teacher noticed much improvement and there was some unpleasantness with a few of the other children (and she wears glasses too...). So the benefit did not appear to outweigh the disadvantages. As long as we ensure we have her attention, she seems to manage. We are hoping to try a different sort, but are waiting for input from school/ToD before our next appointment.
Reallytired She has nothing in the classroom at present (apart from a vague plan to sit her on the righthand side of the classroom), and are awaiting a classroom assessment from the Teacher of the Deaf. Unfortunately the visit has been postponed twice already. Now we are due to be visited in April, but to be honest part of the reason I want to press ahead with some sort of plan is I don't have 100% faith that it will happen.
I had heard of NCDS, but had mistakenly thought they only dealt with properly deaf children, not those with partial hearing loss. I have found lots of good info there, so thanks for that.
I found the audiology chart. DD has 60 for the first three columns which then slopes up to 20 in the right ear and 40 in the left ear. So, from the NCDS chart it looks like she may be missing all the vowels? Is there another more in depth speech chart that you know of, which may be able to point us to enough sounds that we can make words out of?
DeWe Her speech is pretty good, mainly because we paid for a lot of private SALT two years ago. We have been using the exagerated mouth shapes to learn the phonics and this has been fairly succesful. But blending them together is where we are failing.
maizieD I am aware that learning sight words is not going to get us too far, which is why I'm uneasy with our current situation. She can sound out words and takes sounds made out of 2/3 letters into account (eg c - oa - t and not c - o - a - t). But having read out the sounds in a word, she is unable to blend them together to make the word. At the moment she sounds out a new word several times, I encourage her to repeat it several times more a bit faster (with an emphasis on the first sound), then I repeat it until I am saying the word in a drawn out fashion while she looks at my face and when I finally say the word like a normal person she repeats it and usually just reads it straight out next time we encounter it. I'd love to be told I'm doing it like an idiot, so if you have any suggestions I would truly be grateful!
mrz Those are very interesting links - thank you. Do you happen to know how that scheme teaches the blending aspect? In any event, knowing there are schemes out there means I have something to ask about on parents evening. I've seen it mentioned on here before that you are/were a SENCO - at what point would it be reasonable for DD to get some sort of focused support? At the moment I would imagine there are a large number of children of haven't got the hang of reading - so at what point would not being able to blend flag up some intervention (whether hearing normally or not)?
Sorry again for epic post.