there is a child in my class who is very able and started to read way before she started school, but not with phonics. She find phonics very hard now and she actually gets a bit anxious about it sometimes.
I find it incredibly sad that instead of making parents and teachers more confident about helping their children with learning to read and write it has left many nervous and confused.
It really does not matter whether children first learn to call letters just by their sounds and learn the traditional names of the 26 letters as well.
The root problems is that all letters used for spelling the 19 English vowels, apart from ee, have more than one sound:
an, any, apron - even, ever - finish, find - on, only, once, other - up, use, busy -
sound, soup, double, boot, foot, laid, said, plaid, field, friend, pie ...
That's why letter names are quite useful when telling your child how spell a word, but it could work just as well if we all referred to a, e, i, o, u by their short sound (at, egg, in, on, up).
But however much u try shield your children from confusion, there will be times when they find either reading or writing difficult - because of the irregular way English is spelt.