(. . . part 3)
When I was twenty, I had professional drum lessons, hoping to turn professional, but never got good enough. However, for forty years played in many different situations: pubs, clubs, old time music hall, student big bands.
Moved to Devon, in local pantomime group for ten years, plus standard Musicals - South Pacific, Guys & Dolls, Annie, Oliver etc. Became a TA, had simple recorder group from Yr2 upwards; some years kids were keen enough do read a few 'dots', other years they just learnt by memory. We did London's Burning as a 'round', and at a performance for parents, Head surprised me, splitting parents into groups to join in and sing with us in the 'round'. Coached children on percussion to accompany Christmas production; had a percussion club for a while.
So although children weren't learning much 'formal' music, they were getting a taste of playing, enjoying it, and seeing audiences enjoy it.
Now retired, I answer a lot of MN queries on music. Schools often have volunteers in to support sports, gardening, the PTA etc, so more could encourage a musical parent or visitor to give children a 'taste' of music.
MN parents are not your 'average' parent I always claim; music to them means Grades, if it is to have any value. For four years I did a few hours at weekends, working with 'deprived' children, via the local council, taking them to the woods, the park, or the beach; things that normally parents would do, except many of these parents weren't up to it.
Most secondary schools now have music 'tech' facilities (I think) and the internet has many music-tuition sites, some free (to start with, at least). So, in theory there should be ample scope to 'spread the message'. As you probably know, Nicola Benedetti has done a lot in that way, and currently James Rhodes has his campaign. (I just find it a shame he has to look so scruffy.) An experiment at a primary school, revealed what you and I would expect, that learning an instrument CAN boost concentration and academic performance:
www.dontstopthemusic.co.uk/latest/campaign/lords-debate-music-education
Recently a MN parent asked for opinions on "Dogs and Birds" music; I looked it up, and was horrified by it - seems like expensive rubbish to me; it just perpetuates the myth that conventional notation is beyond the reach of ordinary mortals!
Our DS was 'playing' on our Yamaha organ at a few months old (we held him on the bench). I put letter stickers on the pedals, and aged two he would sit the floor to press the appropriate pedal as I called it out, while I played the manuals. At five he was starting to read music, and went on to do music in GCSE and A levels. He plays alto sax, got Grade 8 Distinction. I believe because he had the opportunity and experiences from a very early age, he could continue to progress.