I'd be really grateful if any teachers could give me a steer on the following:
How neat would you expect handwriting of your average recently turned seven yr old yr3 child to be? Is very irregular, erratic and at times bordering on illegible normal? Child tries very hard, especially with joining up. Sometimes they seem to manage it, but often it just looks an utter mess, including number formation. Often resembles squashed flies!!
Should a yr3 child remember to use capital letters and full stops in the correct places the vast majority of the time? What about inappropriate initial letter capitalisation mid sentence? Are these common mistakes that all children make and eventually stop?
Is it normal for them still to struggle to write on the lines and start at the correct place on the left hand side of the page consistently?
Is it normal for a child of this age who has learned and practised their spellings to then only get 6-8/10 correct? Eldest consistently got full marks after one quick practise. Number 2 can diligently learn them and will still not get them right. I don't see any difference in innate intelligence between the two of them at home.
Is it usual at this age for a child to be unable to spell well words that they read regularly and understand without difficulty, instead using (vaguely) plausible phonetic spellings?
My child is one of the best readers in their class, with good comprehension and a wide vocab. They spoke and read rapidly and early. My eldest was too... only they didn't do any of these things and picked all the stuff above up far far easier, in yr2 or earlier. I feel like I don't know what the benchmark should be. Was my eldest just bizarrely ahead? Will number 2 click with this stuff eventually?
Perhaps most importantly, how can we help?