Is there any way of knowing whether a child is likely to be grammar school material at this stage if the school won't advise? Lots of 11+ tutors are getting booked up for next year (start of Y5) and I feel we really need to make a decision whether to go for it or not but don't want to put DS through the pressure/workload if he's just not cut out for it.
Most of his friends will be taking the 11+ (v. bright year group) so he's already 'decided' he wants to go but obviously we need to guide him down the correct path. We're in Kent with 3 boys' grammars, he wouldn't be going for the 2 super-selectives & state options are very limited for us atheists (not hard to work out area
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