My first post here and it's long - sorry for that. But upsetting situation and want to describe it accurately.
DS started school last year and I offered to volunteer with fundraising and it's all ended up a disaster. I found very many disingenuous practices by the head. Some of them:
- Voluntary donations from parents offered free of cost refused. Instead, products on sale at events are bought in from selected local businesses. All profits to businesses, not school. School only retains minor table top fee. However parents not told about this, so they buy stuff assuming it benefits school.
- Parent newsletter declarations of earnings made at fundraising events false/ misleading - they quote all the money in the float at the end of the event, not after deducting huge expenses as everything is bought rather than sourced through donations. Also, we were told by staff one event made a loss, but newsletter quoted profit of the same amount!
- Minutes not kept or circulated at fundraising meetings. I personally typed up minutes twice but I was not allowed to circulate them myself and no one ever saw a copy afterwards.
- We were told there wasn't a PTA because no parents had volunteered. We canvassed and got many parents to sign up interest, with their phone numbers and emails, making themselves available for fundraising. This list was taken off us and we were not allowed to contact anyone afterwards and staff also never contacted anyone.
- Various parents keep reporting that they leave their details with school office at start of school year for volunteering and they never hear anything. Head only allows staff and a few selected parents to be involved.
I have been vocal from the start at wanting to help set up PTA and liven up fundraising scene. Head started off by being positive, but she never attended meetings or sent a deputy. Her rep was a dinner lady who seemed to have no authority to approve anything. Meetings were shambolic, there was never anything discussed past a few basic cake sale style tables. We provided very many ideas and suggestions, all lost or misrepresented somewhere in confused channels. Eventually, I resorted to emailing head with my own written minutes and plans. Results: deputy head sent to chair next meeting, where we were all patronisingly shut down, dinner lady confirmed as in charge of all arrangements and we were told to put up or shut up in effect. Head is now stating I have been making trouble in playground by discussing matters and has implied that I won't be allowed to volunteer again as I'm perceived as not being fully supportive of school. Other parents have all expressed deep discontent but are intimidated by head and unwilling to stand up to her. I feel upset and dismayed and don't want to allow such disingenuity to continue unchecked at ds's school. Also worried about consequences as I seem to sense (don't know if this is imagination) negativity from class teacher and office staff, which makes all dealings stressful.
School offers far too little currently in terms of after school activities or school trips or special in school activities. I really hoped I could help with this by getting involved in fundraising.
Meanwhile, ofsted have been, school has been downgraded in rating and a new head has now been appointed, to start in Jan.
How best to move next? Wait it out for new head? Or start complaint procedure and face the consequences? Will current head be able to somehow 'blacklist' me and my family in school records? Surely I have some protection and rights as a parent!