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DD (year 1) won't switch off!

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EatDessertFirst · 29/09/2014 20:35

We've had a tearful few days with DD. In Reception she bounced into and out of school every day. No issues whatsoever.
Now, a few weeks into Year 1, drop off is becoming difficult. She was taken in by a teacher this morning as she was crying and reluctant to leave DP. She was very withdrawn when I picked her up and on speaking to her (very lovely) teacher, she commented on how tired she seemed. She also reassured me that there are no problems in school which I absolutely believe. The school are hot on any kind of bullying etc.
However, as soon as DD got home, she wanted to practise her writing and do sums. Its seems a bit much to me. I'd rather she vegetated!

She is going to bed at 7pm and not waking until 6.30am so she is getting plenty of sleep. She is eating very well and getting plenty of exercise in school and at her weekly ballet class (1 hour).

Sorry for the ramble. My question is, how can I get her to switch off after school? Could the sums/writing be relaxing for her? Is the adjustment to simply having more class work in Year 1 that could be making her more tired?
I hope these questions make a bit of sense. I just want to help my DD adjust. I don't want to crush her keeness or be pushy with her.
Thank you wise ones, as ever.

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Pikkewyn · 29/09/2014 21:34

Can you go for a walk/stop off at the park on the way home? Give her a chance to get some fresh air and switch off from school stuff for a little while before heading home to work on school stuff.

EatDessertFirst · 29/09/2014 21:39

Its a great idea. We've been trying to do that a couple of times a week. Maybe I should make it a new part of our routine. We're lucky to have a park opposite the school.

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Timeforabiscuit · 29/09/2014 21:49

Year 1 is very hard, more structured lessons - and if your daughter is a more perfectionist type they really do whip up the importance of trying hard, practicising etc which for a conceintious child is a bit like adding napalm to the fire!

The park is a great idea, found using the scooter on the school run helped and hot chocolate also works well as a wind down.

EatDessertFirst · 29/09/2014 22:08

Thanks for replying. I think you may have hit the nail on the head Timefor. She is a bit of a perfectionist. Hopefully (more!) physical exertion will wear her out enough that she has no choice but to veg out!

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