Hi there.
1. We plan on renting in an area close to good schools in the town we settle in, does this usually mean that we would automatically get a place at the local school if in the catchment area?
I'm afraid not. Your children would be placed where there is space, which could be some distance away - general guideline is around 45 minutes travel is fine. They could be placed at separate schools. If the only school offered is more than 2 miles (for under 8s) or 3 miles (over 8s) the child will get free transport, but this could be a bus pass and doesn't cover parents. In rare circumstances, local schools can be forced to take a child (something called the FAP) but this is only if no schools in a large radius have space.
You can appeal; for infants/juniors (Reception, Y1, Y2) it is very hard to win an appeal as class sizes are capped at 30 and there are only very specific reasons to exceed that (essentially the admissions authority has made a mistake); for Y3 +, it is slightly easier, you need to prove the detriment to the school of taking your child is less than the detriment to the child in not getting a place. It's still not easy though, and if the school has already taken one or two in over it's limit it will be very hard indeed.
You can also go on waiting lists; in most schools, having a sibling attend puts you somewhere near the top of these lists. When it comes to finding a reception place for your youngest, this may help you as the sibling rule will enhance their chances of getting into the same school as one of their siblings. Or they may well get a place in your local school if you live close enough, as reception admissions are normally done on distance from school.
- Some primary schools in UK have extra facilities for kids with special needs (such as speech therapists) but most do not. If your child has special needs, does this give you more influence with where they can go to school? If our 3 year goes to a school without any allowances for special needs, can they request additional assistance (extra teachers, etc)?
If your child has an Education, Health and Care plan (used to be called a Statement of Special Needs, these are being phased out) then you may get more support, but getting one of these is likely to be a long process and require quite significant needs, so I would get the ball rolling immediately you get here. EHCs will enable you to state the school they attend. It may well be the case that the authority doesn't consider your child's needs significant enough, and will suggest that SEN Support within school is sufficient, which will lay out what your child needs in terms of support, which is expected to be offered by all schools. Some schools are better than others at this, but you won't be able to pick and choose on this basis.
- Our oldest daughter is attending Catholic High School in Australia. Catholic schools here are generally private (but fees lower than independent schools). With catholic schools in the UK, are these generally free to attend or does it depend on each one individually (sorry this is off topic with Primary Schools).
Plenty of both here! Depends where you are. Some Catholic schools will prioritise those who can prove many years of devoted attendance, which may prove an issue, but not all do. St Peter's in Guildford, for example, prioritises baptised roman catholic children who live in certain parishes. If they have no waiting list, this is irrelevant of course, but it's worth bearing in mind as waiting lists will be ordered in the same way.
Essentially, it's a bit of lottery when you first arrive. But getting on waiting lists for all acceptable schools will help, as will living close by the school you wish the 3 year old to attend (checking admissions criteria closely, they do differ). Get in touch with the Local Authority re. the EHC quickly, but don't place all your hopes on it as it's a long process with no guarantee.