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Behaviour charts!

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afussyphase · 16/09/2014 20:41

(reposting from chat, sorry)

DD's Y2 class has a chart system where there is a prize when they get up to 10, starting at 3. They can move up or down. So far only 1 child has had the prize. DD is doing OK on it, but every day she talks about it and it is clearly a source of frustration and stress. She has started saying she hates school and doesn't want to go (but I don't know if that's because of this chart, or some other reasons, or just an expression of wanting independence).

My feeling is:
-- the teacher cannot observe each of the 30 DCs' behaviour well enough for this chart to be accurate. Some things will be missed.
-- consequently, they don't really control how well they do on it. DD seems to strive and strive, isn't noticed (or that is her experience), and then comes home and explodes over some minor injustice.
-- it hangs there over them all day; everyone sees how everyone else is doing and it is a constant reminder (of something they are not happy with and can't control). Imagine weighing yourself every 20 minutes all day ... said my mother.
-- This seems particularly damaging for any DC with any problems such that meeting the (apparently exacting and somewhat randomly-timed) standards is extra hard; they will see others getting prizes but never / rarely themselves. Not DD's situation but there will of course be DC like this in the class. School has high FSM, high SEN, high levels of social deprivation; some DC come as refugees, some have little English so won't understand instructions etc. Some DC just have different development than others with none of these factors.
-- the rational coping strategies are (a) try extra hard to get attention (annoying and probably not successful) or (b) stop caring. DD has already said "X said he doesn't even want the prize!" so X has clearly figured out that (b) is logical. DD has also said that she's the kind of person who will never get that prize.

OK so this is probably PFB thinking but I don't think at Y2 they should be set up with a system where the logical response is to stop striving for achievement/recognition at school. These things may be trivial to us, but to them it's a big deal.

What would you do? What do you think of these charts? Any teachers who could advise me here? Not sure if it's relevant but the teacher is NQT. Last year's teacher had a daily star thing that seemed much better and by Friday most of the DC would get one, and I think no one was publicly left out.

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Cheebame · 16/09/2014 21:20

I'm not a fan either - fortunately DDs school do not have this, but they do have 'Learner of the Week' awards, which only one child per class can win per week, for example, so that I guess is sometimes awarded arbitrarily, especially as each child wins it at least once per year. It's the same thing, the 'reward' is not an accurate reflection of the effort or otherwise, and I don't think that is a good thing.

Galena · 17/09/2014 07:56

DD's school have clouds... you start each day in the middle and can either move up or down - 2 or 3 places each direction. If you move to the top you get to go to the head for some praise (!)

DD seems happy enough that she hasn't been right to the top yet, but close (2nd from top and you get a sticker which was good enough for her!)

Kimaroo · 17/09/2014 08:24

We use traffic lights and we start at the top in our class because every day is a new start. There are consequences for moving down, If you never move down at the end of the week you get max time on the outdoor playground or some other 'treat'. 'Offenders' get pro-rata reduced time. Works well but like anything needs tweaking occasionally.

afussyphase · 17/09/2014 10:27

All of those sound better than this one because it ends each day so they get a fresh start. Or the Learner of the the Week thing - they wouldn't expect it every week so they wouldn't be so disappointed when it usually doesn't happen. And it's not so public so they don't have to watch others progressing or not progressing all the time.

I think we have to talk to the teacher. This almost certainly will make us look silly. But it's affecting us WAY more than it should.

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