What range of differentiation actually happens in a class - do children end up doing different work, or just extra stuff once they have all done the initial work set.
Just how different can the work set be. For example if they are working on number bonds to 100 and some children are struggling, and others have had them figured out for years, what should the children who have figured them out expect to be doing?
In DD's school some parents have clearly complained that their children need to all be doing the 'same' work - which is what the teachers stressed at the intro meeting at the start of term - the only difference is that the bottom group get the TA and extra assistance while covering exactly the same work. Fine in theory, but it doesn't seem to be great for the kids that are bored or stretch those who are into maths.
The range of abilities is children who know all their times tables at speed, to ones still struggling with x2; some who have completely got place value and some who haven't at all etc.
I would like to know if I am being unrealistic in hoping they could all be challenged. And if I am being realistic, how does differentiation actually work in practice in your school. Specific examples of how this should work would be wonderful as at the moment they all do the same sheets, but the most able table gets less help / teacher input, and then there is a corner to go and do puzzles if they finish. I am told that this is ideal differentiation?!
Sorry for a mammoth post but I don't want to drip feed and I need specific advice.