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How to get a reluctant 5 year old to learn his basic sound and numbers?

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stripeycat13 · 16/07/2014 22:18

He was really wanting to learn and proud of it until he became aware of his brothers struggle and reluctance as he is SEN. Now he thinks its something to be dreaded!,i have not forced it hoping he would come round in time but he is getting further and further behind.Starting in year one in sept.What do do?

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nonicknameseemsavailable · 16/07/2014 22:38

turn them into bingo type games?

TheEnchantedForest · 17/07/2014 00:06

Has he been in reception in the school?

stripeycat13 · 17/07/2014 00:24

No not yet he went to pre school and then home schooled instead of reception as I didn't think he was ready

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erin99 · 17/07/2014 17:34

Go and see his Y1 teacher now, if the school hasn't broken up yet, and listen to her/his suggestions.

Failing that, I like alphablocks on cbeebies.

Ferguson · 17/07/2014 19:28

Reading and Phonics you can easily tackle yourself, and, Yes Alphablocks is one way.

Use it in conjunction with a useful book that is reviewed in MN Book Reviews. In the section "children's educational books and courses" you will find the Oxford Phonics Spelling Dictionary. There is a link where you can view sample pages, and it is an attractive and easy to use introduction to Phonics.

It is important you use the correct Phonics approach, as children who have already had a year in Reception will be familiar with much of the reading and spelling techniques.

Regarding Numeracy, I'll add below my standard advice to early number skills:

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Practical things are best for grasping number concepts - bricks, Lego, beads, counters, money, shapes, weights, measuring, cooking.

Do adding, taking away, multiplication (repeated addition), division (sharing), using REAL OBJECTS as just 'numbers' can be too abstract for some children.

Number Bonds of Ten forms the basis of much maths work, so try to learn them. Using Lego or something similar, use a LOT of bricks (of just TWO colours, if you have enough) lay them out so the pattern can be seen of one colour INCREASING while the other colour DECREASES. Lay them down, or build up like steps.

So:

ten of one colour none of other
nine of one colour one of other
eight of one colour two of other
seven of one colour three of other

etc, etc

then of course, the sides are equal at 5 and 5; after which the colours 'swap over' as to increasing/decreasing.

To learn TABLES, do them in groups that have a relationship, thus:

x2, x4, x8

x3, x6, x12

5 and 10 are easy

7 and 9 are rather harder.

Starting with TWO times TABLE, I always say: "Imagine the class is lining up in pairs; each child will have a partner, if there is an EVEN number in the class. If one child is left without a partner, then the number is ODD, because an odd one is left out."

Use Lego bricks again, lay them out in a column of 2 wide to learn 2x table. Go half way down the column, and move half the bricks up, so that now the column is 4 bricks wide. That gives the start of 4x table.

Then do similar things with 3x and 6x.

With 5x, try and count in 'fives', and notice the relationship with 'ten' - they will alternate, ending in 5 then 10.

It is important to try and UNDERSTAND the relationships between numbers, and not just learn them 'by rote'.

I am sorry it seems complicated trying to explain these concepts, but using Lego or counters should make understanding easier.

An inexpensive solar powered calculator (no battery to run out!) can help learn tables by 'repeated addition'. So: enter 2+2 and press = to give 4. KEEP PRESSING = and it should add on 2 each time, giving 2 times table.

There are good web sites, which can be fun to use :

www.ictgames.com/

www.resources.woodlands-junior.kent.sch.uk/maths/index.html

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Come back sometime if you need any specific help. I was a Primary TA and helper for twenty years, and have seen plenty of children through the early stages of school.

erin99 · 17/07/2014 21:35

Just so as not to panic you OP, IME (only parent, not TA) the infant school pupils at our school are not learning any times tables! My DS is pretty good at maths for a YR and he can count in 2s, 3s, 5s etc but has not been introduced to tables by rote. One of his friends is working on recognising numbers 11-20, and that is fine. There is a huge range in levels at this age - massive, honestly - and I'm sure it's because some of them just aren't developmentally ready. When they are ready, those slow starters can really fly.

Being able to count objects up to 10 is a good start, first with objects he can move, and recognising then writing the numbers. Stuff like being able to count 4 objects and write the number 4 in the box. Count stuff all the time, ask him to pass you 4 forks, grab 2 knives and ask him how many more you need to make 4, play dice games. Sum swamp is good, if he's up to adding 2 numbers on dice, but if he's not there yet try Orchard games eg the ladybird one. You're prob doing all this already!

Fine motor control is really important as a precursor to writing. Our school has loads of little exercises like putting cocktail sticks through a small slit, hama beads, moving dried peas between bowls etc. But mainly don't panic. I bet he'll make astonishing progress next year.

MyFirstName · 17/07/2014 21:36

My DS was quite behind at the end of YR. Some Jolly Phonics CD singing in the car and another year of age (which I think has had the biggest impact) has made a huge difference. He is now exactly whright - ere he should be.

He is very bright but was very reluctant. His YR1 teacher and particularly his TA have helped him enormously.

You may find he resists learning from you. Do not panic. I would second if you can speaking to the Y1 teacher before summer if you can - but seriously, do not fret too much.

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