Hi - I did this slightly differently.
Using the initial equations Le Mous. came up with:
T+B=100
J+B=120
J+T=80 (because Jane & Tom are the two people Ben could see)
and then used lougle's substitution method.
So if we add the bottom two equations together
J + B + J + T = 200
or
2J + (B+T) = 200
We can replace B + T with 100 because we know T + B = 100
so we get
2J + 100 = 200
subtract 100 from both sides (remember you can carry out any function as long as you do the same to both sides of the equation).
2J + (100 - 100) = 200 - 100
2J + (0) = 100
2J = 100
now divide both sides by two (same principle - any function is o.k. as long as done to both sides of the equation).
J = 50.
Now knowing J = 50 - you can work out the rest.
Let's start with the second equation:
J + B = 120
replace B with 50
50 + B = 120
subtract (take away may be the term used in school - heaven forbid we teach proper mathematical terminology) 50 from both sides of the equation....
B = 70
Knowing that you can solve the first equation.
T + B = 100
replace B with 70
T + 70 = 100
subtract (take away) 70 from both sides
T + (70 - 70) = 100 - 70
T + (0) = 30
T = 30
Answers: Jane = 50
Ben = 70
Tom = 30
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although lougle and spaniel eyes approaches also work - I think this rather long winded method may make more sense for those just dealing with algebraic equations.
I know when I was 10/11 I'd look at those three equations and then Lougle's Ben - Tom = 40 and would be confused.
However, that's not to say these methods might make more sense to your DC - after all there are many ways of solving the same equation - it's just to say if they don't help initially - there is a more longwinded way of doing it which might make the substitutions a little clearer for a beginner.
HTH