schoolcheat - "I think what I did was the only way for me to engage with a rigid system, without DD ending up with no school place at all".
You did not place your DC on waiting lists, appeal or anything that would indicate that what you did was the "only way" for you to avoid your DD ending up with no school place at all. In fact you LEA is obliged to find you a school place so the likelyhood of this happening is fairly remote.
What I think, going by the way you justify your need to cheat, is you cheated to get you DC into the school you wanted them to get into.
I don't consider I cheated, really
This seems to be the case with many cheats. They often feel it is OK to cheat as the outcome is what their DC deserved. The method deployed to obtain the more acceptable/favourable outcome is often irrelevant.
Had we got no school place, I would have felt DD had been cheated by the system.
So whilst it is not OK for you to feel cheated, it is OK for you to cheat and another parent to feel that way?
Sounds like you have money, and are therefore entitled to get what you want.
How can you possibly make that judgement based on what they have posted. They said they are long term residents in an expensive area (partly due to several great schools plus lots of other factors).
I live very close to a very sought after school. I bought my house 7 years ago and since this time house prices have shot up. I could never afford to buy this house if I was looking to move now.
I am particularly concerned by the fact that by your very actions you may have demonstrated to your DC that it is OK to cheat if the system is flawed.
In my book, and the message I make very clear to my DCs, it is never OK to cheat to manipulate the outcome in your own favour.
I think moaning about 'cheating' in the admission process ... Please direct your ire at something useful: campaigning to change our ridiculous lottery of school places.
I think you should take some of your own advice and instead of cheating the system, you should have tried to change it.