kim,
As you only named one school on the form, the council has acted absoluitely correctly - you did not meet the admission criteria as well as other peopkle did, and they have filled all the places.
Had you given 2nd, 3rd etc choices - in many areas this can be up to 6 - you would have had a chance of being allocated a school that may not have been ideal, but would meet your needs / beliefs better than the school you have been allocated.
'I am not standing for this' is not a helpful response - in many ways, you put yourself in this piosition by not researching issues like catchment areas / sibling priority fully, and by not putting down as second, 3rd etc chouices schools that you were reasonably happy with.
What you have to decide is what to do now. You need to fully inform yourself about your position with respect to your desired school:
- Has any mistake been made in the allocation e.g. what priority is given to suiblings inside / outide catchment? Are you definitey in the right category?
- Exactly where does the catchment area boundary run? How far are you outside it?
- Where are you on the waiting list, and historically what has the 'movement' been on this list?
You then need to find out about other schools you would be happier with than your allocated school:
- Are there any othert schools with spaces?
- Are there any schools that you would be very high on the waiting list for e.g. what catchment ARE you in, and does that give you priority for the catchment school?
- Put yourself on as many waiting lists as possible.
You then need to research the practicalities of getting children to school on time. Many, many parents use before school childcare for one or all of their children (I have used a childminder from 7.30 am for years).
- Does either school have a breakfast club?
- Would a friend of your older child be willing to walk with your older child to school / have a parent who would give them a lift while you take the younger child to their school?
- Are there childminders who drop of at either / both of the schools?
- Are there organised childcare settings that do drop offs at either school?
- Is your allocated school more than 2 miles away? in this case you may get free transport there.
You could also prepare an appeal for your preferred schol. It will be infant class size, and extremely hard to win, so your arguments need to be concrete, rational, not linked to childcare or transport (as those cannot be taken into account) and need to show that the council has made a mistake (e.g. put you in the wrong category for admissions)