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Talk to me about school uniform

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Worried007 · 17/04/2014 20:07

What do we need and how much of it?

I am at a complete loss but now we know the school place we want to start buying in bits n pieces

Do reception children need bags and pencil cases?

Thank you

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MaRyzerection · 17/04/2014 21:40

My advice is: buy as little as possible.

Some people insist on clean everything every day, but you really don't have to.

A bag they can carry, a pencil case they can open, and crappy cheap uniform-like clothes are fine. Bearing in mind that anything that costs over £20 will be instantly lost [bitter]

MaRyzerection · 17/04/2014 21:43

Oops, having read the thread I now realise they don't need bags or pencil cases Shock

Very different in Ireland, where you have to provide everything, from pencils to books.

And I agree with the advice to talk to parents of older children, to avoid buying stuff that might be on the list, but never used.

Worried007 · 17/04/2014 21:44

Lots of stories like that MaR

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Bumpsadaisie · 17/04/2014 21:49

My advice would be

  • don't buy cheap supermarket uniform if you can possibly afford not to. M&S stuff isn't all that much more expensive and is much better quality.
  • buy cotton stuff if you can (who wants to spend 50-60 hours a week in polyester trousers!) Again M&S is good.
  • don't buy yet, wait till the M&S school uniform sale (usually happens towards the end of the summer term, i.e. end June/early July).
Worried007 · 17/04/2014 21:49

lots of people seem to regret spending money on expensive, good quality uniform. Does anyone regret buying cheap and cheerful?

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Bumpsadaisie · 17/04/2014 21:49

Cheap and cheerful polo shirts are awful - shrink in the wash, go hard and scratchy and lose shape.

Worried007 · 17/04/2014 21:50

Good thoughts about polyester, I wouldn't want to spend all day in man-made fibres so I certainly wont make the kids.

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SunnyRandall · 17/04/2014 21:55

Sainsburys polo shirts are the nicest I've tried.

I bought DD a jersey pinafore from Tesco for £6. It bobbled after two washes. The M&S one it was replacing was £10 but after two terms wear still looked new. (I was replacing as DD had grown)

M&S or Next for trousers and skirts or pinafores from now on.

But some of my friends prefer to buy cheap Asda stuff and replace every term.

Worried007 · 17/04/2014 21:56

This is all great information thank you all.

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Bumpsadaisie · 17/04/2014 21:57

Agree Sunny. My DD's M&S polo shirts look like new still and she's done two terms in them.

Her cotton M&S skirts are showing the strain slightly but then they were only £6 each and are lovely on the skin.

RuthlessBaggage · 17/04/2014 22:01

Interestingly, I found that the Morrisons polo shirts wore far better than M&S. M&S definitely better for jumpers, shorts and trousers, but all the polo shirts have come apart round the button bit at the front, whereas the Nutmeg (Morrisons) bought at the same time and with equal wear still look new.

MaRyzerection · 17/04/2014 22:02

I never regretted cheap. Because I never minded my children looking scruffy. If you mind them looking scruffy, buy more expensive.

I decided that cheap and replaceable (though to be honest I never replaced much) was the way to go.

dd is 17, and finishing her 6th year in secondary this year. She is wearing the same skirt she started with at just 12. It was a great length then, now it's a tad Grin short, but she refuses on principle to buy a new one.

MrsCakesPremonition · 17/04/2014 22:06

I buy one brand new logo jumper and 2 brand new logo polo-shirts.
2 pairs of trousers.
A couple of jumpers from the school's nearly new uniform lady.
A multi-pack of cheapy polo-shirts from a supermarket or similar.
School shoes.
At least 5 pairs of decent quality socks.
Logo PE-shirt, shorts and plimsolls.
Raincoat and wellies to live at school.
Water bottle.

Lasts all year. No regrets.

Oh, and it might be worth looking on the Tesco Uniform website to see if they are doing logo'd stuff for your school. Quality is fine and much cheaper than "proper" school uniform shops.

TheNightIsDark · 17/04/2014 22:08

We got everything from asda apart from logo jumpers and still going strong from September.

PastSellByDate · 18/04/2014 08:20

Hi Worried007:

If you haven't, fairly shortly you should receive a welcome letter from the school with more information and there usually will be a meeting for new parents. Quite often in July your child will actually have a visit (usually to the school, but sometimes at home) to meet his/ her new teachers.

Visit day is an ideal opportunity to have a look around and see what children are actually wearing.

We found BHS (also has on-line ordering) offers slightly cheaper but relatively smart school wear than M&S. BHS do a lovely soft cardigan with pockets - which my girls have preferred to wear all through primary school (now Y6 and Y4).

My advice is stock up on the plain stuff in advance ensuring you have the full uniform for maybe 3-4 days and then add more once school starts and your child starts to express a preference for certain clothing. For us both girls decided they wanted pinnafores for the colder weather, rather than skirts. They also wanted the school logo fleece, rather than sweatshirt.

Packs of white polo shirts are most cost effective. Sainsbury's/ Tesco's/ etc... stock school clothes now - packs of 2 PE shorts/ socks/ white polos are usually reasonable quality and relatively inexpensive from stores. Often they stock up on what the local schools require - especially in terms of gingham dresses/ sweaters/ sweatshirts/ hair accessories/ etc...

For Year R we found polo shirts were easier for our girls because all the buttons on blouses can be very fiddly. Remember that eventually they will have to change for PE - so think about that with all purchases (zippers easier than buttons on gingham dresses, elastic waists easier than button & fly on trousers, etc...).

Our girls loved playing on monkey bars/ climbing frames at school - and we picked up on a trend of buying M&S cullotes which look just like an ordinary grey skirt but obviously provide the coverage/ freedom of shorts. My girls also opted to wear old PE shorts under their gingham dresses - again for the bars.

You usually don't need pencils/ pencil cases for class - but you will need a book bag (unless the school provides it) and a bag for PE kit (usually a pull string bag).

It's probably a good idea to sew on a patch (H & M do a range of patches in their accessories section) or use a key chain/ ribbon on handle to help distinguish their bag from other children's bags (especially if the school requirers you to use their logo bags).

In terms of logo items (i.e. sweatshirts/ fleeces/ sweaters).

My advice is buy slightly big (kids grow & fast). WAIT until last possible moment on school shoes (IME feet always grow over the summer).

Labelling everything is time consuming - I find doing a little each night in front of the tv rather than all the night before school starts is less stressful for Mum! Invest in an indellible black pen/laundry marker and if you'd prefer order named labels (stickers & sew on tapes). I find stickers really useful for labelling water bottles, plimsoles, wellies, sunscreen bottle, homework books, book bags, violin cases, etc...).

HTH

turkeyboots · 18/04/2014 08:29

If school has a PTA they might have a second hand uniform stall running at any parents events. Handy for logo'ed items.

racmun · 18/04/2014 08:34

I'm in the buy as much as you can afford camp as it is such a faff to HAVE to do a midweek wash, especially as ours is all different colours and you can't just chuck it all in together.

I would say 3 sets is the minimum for a full school week. Also once they're in uniform they don't need as many other clothes so its swings and roundabouts really.

Invest in decent shoes they wear them every day so you don't want them in Ill fitting shoes for that long.

RuthlessBaggage · 18/04/2014 08:34

Excellent from PastSell there.

I agree about waiting to buy school shoes, with the caveat that shops do start to run out, so if your child has awkward feet (::glares at my own DC::) you need to start slightly earlier.

Worried007 · 18/04/2014 08:36

I think we are going to go with cotton rather than plastic! Even if that costs a bit more.

Things like socks and underpants I hadn't even considered, he will have to have a school bag because he won't want to carry a book bag all the way to the school (its about a mile) plus he will have to have a spare change of clothes in there incase of accidents.

I remember my mum buying me a pair of cotton shirts from M+S and they fit really nicely and felt really comfortable, I can only assume that is because they were cotton rather than plastic, I really want that for my children rather than polyester uniform.

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Nocomet · 18/04/2014 08:45

I'd start with two jumpers and buy ones that fit.

It's a total false economy to get three a size bigger.

Yes it helps with laundry, but they will be trashed or lost before they look smart.

The first problem is if you have three, you don't instantly chase up lost ones and it's temping not to bother.

Secondly if jumpers/cardigans are too big the cuffs get shreaded. Both because they do rub on tbe desks when writing and because DCs find picking at any worn bits irresistible. If they can lut their thumbs through them that's brilliant.

They are incredibly hard to mend neatly and DC2 will notice if you try to hand them down.

BingoWingsBeGone · 18/04/2014 08:50

My DC can manage a whole week sometimes on one uniform. I can't fathom washing every day. We have 2 jumpers, polos, skirts.

I like the more expensive logo'd polo shirts we have as they don't need ironing but then I'm lazy - I usually get them from the second hand shop at school.

Sainsbury's gingham dresses, skirts, trousers and shorts are great and are 25% off this weekend.

PollyWhittaker · 18/04/2014 09:03

You will probably need a book bag rather than a school bag, so if you are going for a back pack, get one big enough to put the book bag inside. Most schooks have drawers in the classroom where children keep their bookbags and important information, books etc will go in there at hometime, so any schoolbag would normally be in addition to the book bag.

In general, though, wait until you get information from the school as uniform requirements differ from school to school.

3DcAndMe · 18/04/2014 09:04

My two are year one and reception

They each have

5 polos
2 jumpers
3 trousers
2 shorts

The do have school bags as well as book bags as they take a packed lunch

Oh and they obviously have shoes!

Sparklingbrook · 18/04/2014 09:12

Good point about the drawers. The book bag fits in it. A bulky school bag won't.

TheLadyMarion · 18/04/2014 09:26

Cheap and cheerful is fine. I chuck stuff out regularly and get new as my Ds is is a total dirt and dinner magnet. I also get lots second hand. Label in big black marker pen.

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