Thanks for replies sounds positive.
I can either be stubborn he and wait for place come up at eldest school which feel confient it will but then be accused of being reckless hippy as locally school is the norm.
As this seems happen every year on mumsnet especially london was hoping some people had gone down this route and had positive outcome.
I just not sure can put myself through money, stress and incovieniance to take younger daugter to rubbish school i havent chosen miles away from home or school 1.
I can put dd3 in preschool 3 days in sept as he be 3.5 then have joy of his application next year and no sibling link for school 1.
My lea said there may be 1 vacancy they not sure for school local to new house which 4of her nursery freinds are going to, all her preschool mates going school 1 or school 3 which we dident get.
But if she got in there can see her reluctant to move and be stuck doing 2primaries distance apart for next 3years but will give dd3 sibling link was ok school dident hate it but dident love it wither had few concerns and poor oftsed but better option than allocated schoo,
or i pick different lea academy miles form home but close to school 1 where she knows know one and defer until jan or even april and hope place at school 1 comes up by then.
Its making decision to
home ed then start her late
put her in a school and move here
accept a school and defer in blind hope that it may work out.
I now have possible option of 4schools 2 in my le and 2 in other lea none of them great.
thinking with money saved childminders/afterschool club could do lots trips, swimmig and have really lovely time.
Im edicated to degree level and its efys I think im capable and know people who do fab job home ed just seems daunting responsability and know will get lots dissaproval my health visitor seemed truly horrified.