My DS2 is 4, born on 24th August and in currently in reception class, we tried to have his entry deferred for a year but were told it wouldn't be possible at the time - despite so called flexibility for summer born children.
He has SEN and the school is in the process of putting a statement application through for him. We feel that he not ready to go into year 1, even with the additional help and would like to put him back into reception in September, (which given his developmental delays would be more along the right age group for him) and give him the chance to learn the fundamentals before going up to year one.
The school SENCO and the reception teacher were both supportive of this until we spoke to the Head. They said that the reception class was full and that the school would probably not be able to provide the support he needs (we have since contacted the education authority who said that the class isn't full) so clearly the head does not want this to happen, which makes the situation more difficult.
Does anyone have any experience of a child repeating reception and if it was a positive experience for them? I feel like he's being written off at the age of 4 
Thanks for any advice in advance x