I am looking for some advice on how best to frame an appeal for my Y3 child. I will briefly (ish!!) outline my situation.
We are relocating from Kent/Greater London to Essex to be closer to my mother, who was widowed 2 years ago and is in need of some support. I am returning to my home town. however DH and i will continue to work in London. the property we are moving to has only one state primary in walking distance. it is also an excellent school and very oversubscribed.
we have y1 and y3 children (and a pre-schooler). they are settled in our very good local school in kent. we made a mid year appl for school transfer.. as this school is the only one in walking distance it was the only one we named. unsurprisingly, we were not successful but were offered alternatives, which would have meant diff schools for each child, which we turned down.
out of the blue we have just been offered a place for our y1 child. on speaking to the school they told us we could appeal to try to get a y3 place for the other child, but that due to the practical constraints of the school (it isn't on a large plot and is bound in between 2 residential streets) they resist any appeal. they advised I speak to LEA for more info on this.
the lea have said I have nothing to lose by appealing (it doesn't go against us) so I think I will do this, but they can't give any advice on how to frame our appeal. so I am wondering on what grounds can I make the appeal? what information is considered pertinent and compelling in order for an appeal to be successful? I have looked at the school numbers and they have 1 more child than the standard 2 form intake number so at least one appeal has been successful recently.
as this is a major relocation I am keen for our children to make local friends to help them settle in quickly as they are giving up friends they have known since reception. my y3 child is shy and has only really been happy and confident in her small friendship group since y2 and am really keen for this blooming confidence not to be lost. as this is the only school in our immediate area (the nearest next one is a 10 minute drive) it is the only one that will allow her to make local friends. as it is, if our appeal is unsuccessful, we are likely to continue to drive her to her current school (60 miles away) in order to maintain her friendships. clearly I am concerned that this could/will impact on her educational achievement (she is doing very well academically at present and is on the school's G&T list) but in the short term I am prepared to risk this so as not to set back her emotional and social development. I am aware this possibly sounds ridiculous but she has had such difficulties overcoming her shyness and I just don't want to push her backwards.
although I am aware that problems getting children to school isn't an issue they will take into account, we would have real problems getting our children to any other Essex school. primarily as my husband and I will be working in London. we will already be relying on my mother (registered disabled) and a local childminder to get y1 child to school but we couldn't get another child to a school not walking distance away, without relying on cabs to get her either to a childminder in walking distance of the other school or take her directly to school. at a cost of c£100pw (there and back twice a week) which is frankly ridiculous.
any advice anyone can give would be gratefully received. I have no real expectation of success and fully expect to be making the journey back to her existing school for quite some time, but it has to be worth a try?
sorry this is epic, but if I am going to go down this route, with all the associated stress I would like to give myself the best possible (albeit still slight) chance of success.