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Ds's handwriting is horrific

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Onelittlebugbear · 17/01/2014 19:59

He's 4 and a half and although he is more than capable of sounding out words and knows quite a lot of his 'tricky words' his handwriting is so bad it's practically illegible.

He should in theory be able to write short sentences now but I'm worried he won't meet this ELG because of his writing. He is left handed which doesn't help I think, his name is legible but that's about it. He says the little thyme when he writes the letters that they've taught him at school but it doesn't seem to help much. Before christmas it had improved a bit and we did some practice over christmas but now we seem to be back to square one.

Any advice? I've got him a thing he can trace letters and numbers over. The numbers are as bad as the letters which is a shame as he's pretty good at maths but no one will ever know because he can't record anything!

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CecilyP · 18/01/2014 20:41

He should in theory be able to write short sentences now ...

Should he? Who has decided that? A generation ago, a child his age wouldn't even have been in school. It really is far too early to worry. If he has never done much in the way of pencil and paper activities before, it really is a tall order just to expect him to suddenly be able to write. I agree with others that he needs to do other things to develop his fine motor skills before attempting writing If he doesn't like colouring he may enjoy mazes, dot to dots or tracing.

Onelittlebugbear · 18/01/2014 20:57

It's just a shame that he can sound out words pretty easily and can type them or use magnetic letters but he can't write them!

And I think he finds it frustrating too. He finds it impossible to read back what he has written.

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TheGreatHunt · 18/01/2014 21:31

4.5 and short sentences?!!!
No way!

TheGreatHunt · 18/01/2014 21:31

(the triangle shape helps then grip better and control the movement)

ReallyTired · 18/01/2014 21:53

I feel that your expectations of your four year old are unrealistic. He has only had a term of reception and is young in his year. I suggest you talk to your child's teacher as she will be able to tell if you if your son's fine motor skills are a cause for concern.

MissBeehiving · 18/01/2014 22:12

Meh. My DS2 is 4.5 and is a writing refusnik. He can manage his name and few other two/three letter words but we're a looong way off writing sentences yet. He'll happily do it on a computer though and can read quite a lot of words reasonably well.

DS1 was exactly the same - his writing was appalling until he was about 8 and then he seemed to catch up overnight.

I'd focus on pencil grip and correct letter formation at the moment.

If it's any consolation my Cambridge educated DH has the handwriting of a unimaginative 14 year old boy Grin

Onelittlebugbear · 18/01/2014 22:14

The target in ds's class this term is for them to use capital letters, full stops and finger spaces so the teacher is obviously expecting them to write.

Ds's handwriting places him at a massive disadvantage to doing this!

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catkind · 18/01/2014 22:31

I think you have the mirror image of my son - right handed but same age and same handwriting. Exactly the same pattern with getting interested before xmas, downhill since. They have a little rhyme too! Do yours do cursive letters?
A primary teacher friend recommended sticking with the big movements, chalkboard/ paintbrush and water on garden wall/tray with flour on. And things like play dough to improve fine motor skills.
I'm going with the fact I know he can do it from the pre-xmas phase, and hoping soon he'll get interested again. And jumping on any sign of interest in putting pen/pencil to paper. This weekend it was colouring and drawing things with pencil and ruler.

Longdistance · 18/01/2014 22:34

4 and a half? I thought you'd come here to say he was 12 or something.

A doctor in the making???

wasabipeanut · 18/01/2014 22:47

Sentences at 4 and a half? Really? On the other hand I can see where your concern may be coming from. I thought DS1 (now 6 and in Y1) had a poor pencil grip but was told not to worry. I commented to his teacher a few weeks ago that his handwriting was abysmal and she told me that the problem had been identified and that they would be starting remedial work after Xmas. He now has an extra 15 mins a day with his teacher and 4 other boys (yep, all boys) and the improvement in 2 weeks has been amazing.

They get them picking up stuff with tweezers and doing these hand exercises. I am making him write thank you letters for Xmas gifts and I've noticed that I am having to remind him to hold the pencil properly less often and that his letters are perfectly formed - if large. He is a slow writer but we can work on that once the basics are in place.

I would try to relax a bit but just keep an eye on the pencil grip and if you have serious concerns raise it sooner rather than later.

mrz · 19/01/2014 09:36

Fine Motor Skills
Things to remember:

Upright working surfaces promote fine motor skills. Examples of these are: vertical chalkboards; easels for painting; flannel boards; lite bright; magnet boards (or fridge); windows and mirrors; white boards, etc. Children can also make sticker pictures; do rubber ink-stamping; use reuseable stickers to make pictures; complete puzzles with thick knobs; use magna-doodle and etch-a-sketch as well. The benefits for these include: having the child's wrist positioned to develop good thumb movements; they help develop good fine motor muscles; the child is using the arm and shoulder muscles.
Fine Motor Activities
Moulding and rolling play dough into balls - using the palms of the hands facing each other and with fingers curled slightly towards the palm.
Rolling play dough into tiny balls (peas) using only the finger tips.
Using pegs or toothpicks to make designs in play dough.
Cutting play dough with a plastic knife or with a pizza wheel by holding the implement in a diagonal volar grasp.
Tearing newspaper into strips and then crumpling them into balls. Use to stuff scarecrow or other art creation.
Scrunching up 1 sheet of newspaper in one hand. This is a super strength builder.
Using a plant sprayer to spray plants, (indoors, outdoors) to spray snow (mix food colouring with water so that the snow can be painted), or melt "monsters". (Draw monster pictures with markers and the colours will run when sprayed.)
Picking up objects using large tweezers such as those found in the "Bedbugs" game. This can be adapted by picking up Cheerios, small cubes, small marshmallows, pennies, etc., in counting games.
Shaking dice by cupping the hands together, forming an empty air space between the palms.
Using small-sized screwdrivers like those found in an erector set.
Lacing and sewing activities such as stringing beads, Cheerios, macaroni, etc.
Using eye droppers to "pick up" coloured water for colour mixing or to make artistic designs on paper.
Rolling small balls out of tissue paper, then gluing the balls onto construction paper to form pictures or designs.
Turning over cards, coins, checkers, or buttons, without bringing them to the edge of the table.
Making pictures using stickers or self-sticking paper reinforcements.
Playing games with the "puppet fingers" -the thumb, index, and middle fingers. At circle time have each child's puppet fingers tell about what happened over the weekend, or use them in songs and finger plays.

Place a variety of forms (eg. blocks, felt, paper, string, yarn, cereal, cotton) on outlines
Match shapes, colour, or pictures to a page and paste them within the outlines

Self-Care Skills
Buttoning
Lacing
Tying
Fastening Snaps
Zipping
Carrying
Using a screwdriver
Locking and unlocking a door
Winding a clock
Opening and closing jars
Rolling out dough or other simple cooking activities
Washing plastic dishes
Sweeping the floor
Dressing
Scissor Activities
When scissors are held correctly, and when they fit a child's hand well, cutting activities will exercise the very same muscles which are needed to manipulate a pencil in a mature tripod grasp. The correct scissor position is with the thumb and middle finger in the handles of the scissors, the index finger on the outside of the handle to stabilize, with fingers four and five curled into the palm.
Cutting junk mail, particularly the kind of paper used in magazine subscription cards.
Making fringe on the edge of a piece of construction paper.
Cutting play dough or clay with scissors.
Cutting straws or shredded paper.
Cutting
Use a thick black line to guide cutting the following:
A fringe from a piece of paper
Cut off corners of a piece of paper
Cut along curved lines
Cut lines with a variety of angles
Cut figures with curves and angles

Sensory Activities
The following activities ought to be done frequently to increase postural muscle strength and endurance. These activities also strengthen the child's awareness of his/her hands.
Wheelbarrow walking, crab walking
Clapping games (loud/quiet, on knees together, etc.)
Catching (clapping) bubbles between hands
Pulling off pieces of thera-putty with individual fingers and thumb
Drawing in a tactile medium such as wet sand, salt, rice, or "goop". Make "goop" by adding water to cornstarch until you have a mixture similar in consistency to toothpaste. The "drag" of this mixture provides feedback to the muscle and joint receptors, thus facilitating visual motor control.
Picking out small objects like pegs, beads, coins, etc., from a tray of salt, sand, rice, or putty. Try it with eyes closed too. This helps develop sensory awareness in the hands.

Midline Crossing
Establishment of hand dominance is still developing at this point. The following activities will facilitate midline crossing:
Encourage reaching across the body for materials with each hand. It may be necessary to engage the other hand in an activity to prevent switching hands at midline.
Refrain specifically from discouraging a child from using the left hand for any activity. Allow for the natural development of hand dominance by presenting activities at midline, and allowing the child to choose freely.
Start making the child aware of the left and right sides of his body through spontaneous comments like, "kick the ball with your right leg." Play imitation posture games like "Simon Says" with across the body movements.
When painting at easel, encourage the child to paint a continuous line across the entire paper- also from diagonal to diagonal.

Activities To Develop Handwriting Skills
There are significant prerequisites for printing skills that begin in infancy and continue to emerge through the preschool years. The following activities support and promote fine motor and visual motor development:
Body Stability
The joints of the body need to be stable before the hands can be free to focus on specific skilled fine motor tasks.
Wheelbarrow walking, crab walking, and wall push-ups.
Toys: Orbiter, silly putty, and monkey bars on the playground.

Fine Motor Skills
When a certain amount of body stability has developed, the hands and fingers begin to work on movements of dexterity and isolation as well as different kinds of grasps. Children will develop fine motor skills best when they work on a VERTICAL or near vertical surface as much as possible. In particular, the wrist must be in extension. (Bent back in the direction of the hand)
Attach a large piece of drawing paper to the wall. Have the child use a large marker and try the following exercises to develop visual motor skills:Make an outline of a one at a time. Have the child trace over your line from left to right, or from top to bottom. Trace each figure at least 10 times . Then have the child draw the figure next to your model several times.
Play connect the dots. Again make sure the child's strokes connect dots fromleft to right, and from top to bottom.
Trace around stencils - the non-dominant hand should hold the stencil flat and stable against the paper, while the dominant hand pushes the pencil firmly against the edge of the stencil. The stencil must be held firmly.
Attach a large piece of felt to the wall, or use a felt board. The child can use felt shapes to make pictures. Magnetic boards can be used the same way.
Have the child work on a chalkboard, using chalk instead of a marker. Do the same kinds of tracing and modeling activities as suggested above.
Paint at an easel. Some of the modeling activities as suggested above can be done at the easel.
Magna Doodle- turn it upside down so that the erasing lever is on the . Experiment making vertical, horizontal, and parallel lines.

Ocular Motor Control
This refers to the ability of the eyes to work together to follow and hold an object in the line of vision as needed.
Use a flashlight against the ceiling. Have the child lie on his/her back or tummy and visually follow the moving light from left to right, to bottom, and diagonally.
Find hidden pictures in books. (There are special books for this.)
Maze activities.

Eye-hand Coordination
This involves accuracy in placement, direction, and spatial awareness.
Throw bean bags/kooshi balls into a hula hoop placed flat on the floor. Gradually increase the distance.
Play throw and catch with a ball . Start with a large ball and work toward a smaller ball. (Kooshi balls are easier to catch than a tennis ball.)
Practice hitting bowling pins with a ball. (You can purchase these games or make your own with pop bottles and a small ball.)
Play "Hit the Balloon" with a medium-sized balloon.

TheGreatHunt · 19/01/2014 19:19

No your teacher is building the foundations for writing, not expecting sentences now!

mrz · 19/01/2014 19:21

I would be expecting some children to be able to write sentences at this stage in reception TheGreatHunt.

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