WorriedDad23 can you clarify your OP? You say:
"he is in the waiting list for a statement, but they only put him in the list couple of months ago.
Chances are it will take few more months for him to get assessed and get a statement."
Do you have a notice from your Local Authority that they are undertaking a Statutory Assessment or that they have undertaken a Statutory Assessment and have decided to issue a Statement of Special Educational Needs?
If you haven't had either of those documents, then your DS is not getting a Statement right now. There is no such thing as a 'waiting list for a Statement.'
The Statementing process is laid out in law, with a strict timeline:
Day 1 - Request made to Local Authority (LA) either by parents or educational setting (other routes exist, but these are most common).
-LA has 6 weeks to gather evidence and make a decision whether they need to assess-
Week 6 - Notice sent to parents informing them of decision to undertake Statutory Assessment/not undertake Statutory Assessment (SA).
-If not to undertake SA, parents have right of appeal.
-If undertaking SA, LA has 10 weeks to make the assessment. They must ask advice from various bodies, including the parents.
Week 16 - LA must decide whether they will issue a Statement.
-LA has two weeks to draw up a Proposed Statement or a 'Note in Lieu'
Week 18 - LA must provide the parents with either the Proposed Statement (if a Statement is to be issued) or the 'Note in Lieu' (if no statement to be issued)
-If no statement, parents have right of appeal.
-Parents have opportunity to review proposed statement, give comments, ask for amendments, etc., and LA has the opportunity to make changes as negotiated
-Parents are able to name a school and negotiate with the LA if there is a dispute over best setting.
Week 26 - LA must finalise Statement.
-Parents have right of appeal if Statement still isn't to their satisfaction.