when she's in the classroom and I'm not there to see what really happens ..
In a nutshell, DD 6, Y2, is currently, according to her teacher easily distracted and/ or distracting others in the classroom According to my DD, she is only "distracted by others" I.e. she never starts it ...
I have tried to get to the bottom of how and why, but DD gets upset talking about it, genuinely getting very tearful and sad/distressed. Insisting it is not her that 'starts it' and asked me tonight (when I really pushed the issue as I'm getting concerned this is a problem that is starting to impact the work she produces) to tell the teacher for her that she " knows it not the right thing to do but she gets distracted by the loud voices when they start talking to each other, and I join in" ..
She is very able working at mid-high level 2 NC and capable of concentrating the majority of the time, so I wonder if she is 'bored' - but I don't want to invent reasons/ excuses, but would like to know if there are things I can 'suggest' to the teacher to try in the classroom environment and how I can help her too?
I will talk to the teacher to see if there is any 'pattern' to the behaviour, same child, same lessons etc..
Makes me sad to see her so upset about it, she really cares about doing well and the 'right thing' and hates being in trouble and making us sad 
All advice welcome 