spanieleyes Thanks. My Ds has Asperger's too that's why I was curious TBH our Ds is 'shouty' so for him to get the point that he lashes out (which he has many times at school, never at home or anywhere else) he is under huge amounts of stress IMO. The school don't seem to be using any kind of BMP. The reason I suspect this is that at times when appropriate strategies could easily avoid unwanted behaviour are instead being relayed to me by CT's as general bad behaviour resulting in loss of break/lunchtime, working through additional lessons to complete work as per the behaviour policy.
I did suggest doing something similar to what you said e.g. triggers, behaviour demonstrated etc a while back but the CT was disgusted and basically said no. This could of been helpful because we could of found out the trigger which could of been anything from avoiding a school assembly to not understanding a piece of work, even something at home!. His IEP only seems to focus on completing classwork in an acceptable time taking into consideration his literal thinking style, and over-learning maths and spelling in small groups which also targets social skills.
Would SULP being used in the classroom be seen as a BMP?
PandaNot I have tried to point this out to the school, that there is something underpinning e.g. sensory, social confusion causing anxiety etc. but this doesn't seem to make a difference they continue to use the schools behaviour policy. He has even mentioned sitting in a 'meeting' (to complete his work, he was 6 1/2 at the time) with his previous CT and HT while they talked about work getting harder once a child enters KS2
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All in all I wanted to know if the school will have documented 'unacceptable' behaviour somewhere which an outside professional coming in to observe would have assess to as part of their information gathering?. As it stands every time we have had an appointment outside of school (we have attended in a clinic etc) the professionals have always drawn attention to how relaxed, pleasant, and compliant Ds is during the appointment yet if you read Ds's end of year reports there are comments such as "xxxx can be a very pleasant child at times when he chooses to show this side of his character" which to me screams out something isn't right!