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Discipline methods

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blueberryupsidedown · 18/10/2013 13:17

Now I will easily say that my precious DS (in year 3) is not at all perfect, he plays up sometimes and misbehaves. But at school, since nursery, they have a traffic light system and he has never been on amber. None of his teacher ever ever had to speak to me after school, they always praise his behaviour and effort at parent/teacher meetings.

Now fast foward in year 3, he comes home with stories of things that happen in the classroom. Please tell me I'm not the only one who think that these methods are simply not right.

  • Children are 'often' told to go and sit in year 5 or another year (my DS had to do this once, because he asked a question that made the class laugh). This happens on a weekly basis, the ones he tells me about;
  • Children are asked to stand and face the wall (in one particular case, I know one of the children has special needs);
  • The class is made to wait, or do the same action over and over again, until all the children do it silently (ie, walking from the classroom to PE. They did it four times, on one occasion, because a couple of boys kept on talking)
  • All the pupils will be punished because of a few children misbehaving (keeping them all in at playtime, for example).

Am I dreaming or it this just not right? I have a parent consultation meeting today with the teacher and I would like to tell her that I don't agree with her methods.

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MrsTruper · 18/10/2013 19:22

I hope you told her you don't agree. I have posted on here previously about punishments at my dd's school.

Ask to see the behaviour policy - then challenge it.

Check the dfe guidance for behaviour in schools.

Schools are not supposed to punish innocent children! ie the ones that don't talk/disrupt..yet they do it over and over again..please challenge it!

I don't think schools have a CLUE how much damage this can do do innocent children. My dd become withdrawn and scarred by poor behaviour management in school.

tethersend · 18/10/2013 19:32

It's very damaging for all children, including the misbehaving child- further alienation from peers is almost guaranteed to result in an increase in negative behaviour.

MinnieMousse · 18/10/2013 19:37

I'm a teacher and I do the practising walking in a line thing until they do it quietly. It only takes a few minutes a few times at the beginning of the year and then you have the class walking properly all year. I don't agree with the standing facing the wall thing though.

I've taught in Year 2 and Year 3 and there's often a big jump in the expectations of behaviour between the two years.

BeerTricksPotter · 18/10/2013 19:53

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