Our DS is in year 4 and we've begun to look at ways to prepare him for a possible 10+ exam in a year or so's time.
What's become quite clear to us is that the way kids are taught maths at (state) school does not prepare them AT ALL for taking (let alone passing) an entrance exam. There is no way the very slow, grid-based methods they are using at school will enable them to do complex calculations under time pressure.
The school openly acknowledges that their job is not to prepare kids for competitive examinations. The problem begins when the child starts using faster methods learnt at home, which are then deemed 'wrong' at school.
We can't be the only family in the country with kids in state schools preparing for the 10+ or 11+ so I'd love to hear how others have dealt with this.
Do you just tell your kids to apply different methods at home and at school? That's pretty confusing.
I'd love to have a more constructive conversation with the school about this, but don't know how to go about it.